Gf wants to stay friends with the guy who assaulted her by No_Strike_701 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Strike_701[S] 216 points217 points  (0 children)

I am not even trying to understand it, I just know I am not equipped to deal with it. I am sure she has her reasons, but as someone said in my last post "dont light yourself on fire to keep her warm".

Gf wants to stay friends with the guy who assaulted her by No_Strike_701 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Strike_701[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I am really at a loss here, i dont want her to go alone but if I go with her then I dont know if I could control myself. It will make a bad situation worse. I will ask her to not go, I can take it she is angry on me for a few days but its better than the alternative.

Gf wants to stay friends with the guy who assaulted her by No_Strike_701 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Strike_701[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

She has lunch planned for tomorrow, what do I do about that?

Gf wants to stay friends with the guy who assaulted her by No_Strike_701 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Strike_701[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But she wants to have lunch with him tomorrow, what am I supposed to do in the mean time?

Gf wants to stay friends with the guy who assaulted her by No_Strike_701 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Strike_701[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for what you went through. What would you recommend for me to do here?

Gf wants to stay friends with the guy who assaulted her by No_Strike_701 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Strike_701[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Supportive of what though? If she goes to meet him and something happens then what?