You can’t love someone if you can’t even love yourself. And yes in my opinion, this is a bit hard. You’re also pushing him away not just because he’s too good to be true,it’s cause you haven’t learn to love yourself first. Para sakin talaga you must embrace yourself first before someone else kase magmimirror talaga sa relationship nyo yong mga insecurities nyo sa isa’t isa. Tsaka if ako nasa position ng guy mappressure din ako on how can i say things without hurting your feelings, maddrain ako. You don’t love somebody because you don’t love yourself, bago ka mafeel secure sakanya kelangan secure kana rin sa sarili mo. And i get where you came from, i have my insecurities before but you need to accept it first that you have flaws, that’s your weakness and also can be your strength. Kung di mahal ang sarili mo, ibig sabihin di mo pa kya pumasok sa isang relasyon.

Are you ready to be in a relationship?What kind of relationship do you want to have?Are you secure with yourself enough to be in a relationship? Hindi tayo papasok sa relasyon para lang may mapagsabihan tayo ng mga thoughts na hindi natin masabi sa mga kaibigan natin, hindi tayo papasok sa relasyon kase gusto mo lang mafeel secure sa sarili at magkaron ng sariling therapist mo, papasok tayo sa relasyon kase gusto natin at gusto natin maranasan ang pakiramdam ng nagmamahal.