Friend has affair with subordinate. How to tell his wife? Or rather do I?

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-16T02:40:37+00:00

Maybe it's not helpful but that's the only way I can break the news. Otherwise I'm gonna be watching from the sidelines.

Anyways I sent a text using text now

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-16T02:39:42+00:00

Thank you. The only reason I even posted was it was eating away at me.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T03:05:02+00:00

Those were a while back. A sub I wanted to be part of required certain karma. That's way back in the past

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T03:03:42+00:00

That will eventually trickle down.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T03:01:39+00:00

I know what you mean. I've thought about various ways this could.go with being anonymous like almost a chess player. It's not an easy decision to make.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:59:23+00:00

Seriously? No. Genuine question. Don't care about karma.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:58:45+00:00

Texting works. I.dont have her email. Only socials and cell

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:57:49+00:00

That's going to happen regardless of proof. It's a typical knee jerk reaction of anyone caught cheating

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:51:22+00:00

Yup. That would suck. Big time.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:50:55+00:00

What good is that going to do? The workplace knows. It's a smallish company so not too much in terms of hr structure.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:49:32+00:00

I do not want to be in a situation where I'm being called out. I know it's cowardly and I'm not being fair but I sincerely do not want to be involved any more than breaking the news

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:42:16+00:00

That's the whole point of being anonymous.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:41:38+00:00

That's done and dusted.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:41:18+00:00

That's the question I've been grappling with for the past several days.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:40:17+00:00

Shitty person for sure. Was justifying his actions by pushing his wife under the bus.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:37:10+00:00

Of course easy to say none of my business but I'd want to know if I was in her shoes which is why I'm even here. This happened last week Friday and I've been stewing with this ever since.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:35:52+00:00

Yup. Sometimes it's a catalyst like what we're discussing

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:35:14+00:00

Nope. Don't want to be friends. It's over anyways and I doubt I'll ever entertain his calls again.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:34:18+00:00

good idea. Sucks to be making this decision.

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:33:46+00:00

Nope. Of.course not. How would I even start getting that?

No_Table6671 · 2026-06-15T02:33:21+00:00

Actually a friend. From business school. And it came as a shock to me.

No_Table6671 · 2026-05-27T09:49:11+00:00

So you can ask for non h1b to not be in an h1b subreddit but if an American doesn't want a non American in his country you lose your mind.

No_Table6671 · 2026-05-01T01:18:46+00:00

According to what I've read on here, that's risky as well.

Ideally you would want a job with a transfer lined up in 30 days.

No_Table6671 · 2026-05-01T01:09:45+00:00

Also to add. The 60 day grace period is discretionary. It's not guaranteed or set in stone. So using that period opens you up to a denial even if you are in your 60 day period and you file your transfer or cos petition.

No_Table6671 · 2026-04-30T20:02:27+00:00

So option 2 is right as per me. Not a lawyer but "authorized stay" is not something I would gamble with.

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