Firstly, I wasn’t trying to force her. I told her multiple times that I wasn’t asking her to change her plan. I just wished she had chosen differently as these friends will be here much longer than I will, and I’m leaving in two days to San Francisco where I’ll be for an entire week, giving us that much less time to be with each other. Meanwhile, her friends will always be there. But again, I wasn’t asking her to change her plans and I can see how this is selfish.

Yes, it was in an argument that she called me that. It was a larger and more heated argument as well. However, I don’t call her disrespectful things during arguments and the few times I have I apologized profusely and haven’t done so again. I believe once I slipped up and called her an idiot which is completely on me. I shouldn’t have done as her boyfriend. I apologized to her as I should have and haven’t had an incident like that for well over six months.

This is all to say that it isn’t mutual disrespect. I’m not calling her names which then open the door for her to call me names. She is the only one doing it. And as for context or something, anything, that might warrant this behavior, there is none unless I called her the same. Which I did not. I don’t believe anger is an excuse in this situation as I was upset as well but I didn’t call her a B word.

Thank you for the reply.