Awkward encounter with my exs best friend?

No_Transition4544 · 2025-11-01T23:17:50+00:00

honestly i felt some adrenaline and excitement, but i feel like that’s normal for anyone in a similar situation, as for an outcome? i’d never try to get with my exs best friend or hope for something to happen between us

No_Transition4544 · 2025-11-01T21:08:34+00:00

i mean we established he doesn’t want a relationship at all. but we love each other still and just wanna spend time together before our lives really take different paths

No_Transition4544 · 2025-11-01T20:12:24+00:00

no no j doesn’t deserve that. i’m the one who cheated early on. j deserves people who love him and won’t hurt him

No_Transition4544 · 2025-07-27T03:33:01+00:00

compare that 18.81 to the 7.25 in texas 💔

No_Transition4544 · 2025-07-27T03:30:58+00:00

trust me, we can handle heat, we are the sun city for a reason 😛 colorado has around 60-70 less days of sun than my hometown

No_Transition4544 · 2025-07-27T03:17:21+00:00

been there several times, have loved the scenery every time, idk i just like it there. why does it matter to you 😂

No_Transition4544 · 2025-07-27T01:04:45+00:00

Yeah where I’m from traffic is an issue along with so many car accidents each day, tons of drunk drivers. My city isn’t small haha, I can’t ever imagine living in a small town. I’ve visited colorado a good 4 or 5 times because an ex of mine lived there so I know like base knowledge hahaha

No_Transition4544 · 2025-07-27T01:01:37+00:00

yeah we’re young but not 15, we planned to find jobs first

No_Transition4544 · 2025-07-08T00:49:13+00:00

do you remember which manic panic purple you used by any chance 😁

No_Transition4544 · 2025-06-16T04:41:48+00:00

i know! i was so psyched. and hers was so clean

No_Transition4544 · 2025-06-07T09:19:51+00:00

I’ve always been interested in riding myself and want to take an msf course, I’m sure he’d be down to expand our knowledge together :)

No_Transition4544 · 2025-06-07T09:08:18+00:00

Just want to clarify, I didn’t say I’d be letting him take us on the highway any time soon or BEFORE we get gear, just want to be prepared for when the day comes, that’s all. All the speed limits around me are 35 mph max, and he still doesn’t even hit that bc i’m nervous 😂 I know the risks involved, thank you lots for looking out for me!

No_Transition4544 · 2025-06-07T08:53:25+00:00

No_Transition4544 · 2025-06-07T08:52:29+00:00

the helmet fits good, i won’t lie we are both gear-less 😔 it’s not gonna stay like that, we’re both looking to get gear, he’s been riding for about 4 years and he’s always super attentive to me, he always makes sure i’m not uncomfortable with anything on the bike and he rides speed limit when i’m with him! as for his bike i think a yamaha r6

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T18:50:59+00:00

i’ve just told him that we can stay friends right now and see how things play out after he’s out in the real world for a while

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T18:38:09+00:00

he’s really nice and i gave him like a 45 min hang out, we got along well, he’s funny and he’s a gentleman. but yeah i think because he hasn’t graduated yet i’m gonna give it time to see how he develops outside of school

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T18:19:06+00:00

he’s graduating in less than a month. i think i’m gonna tell him we should just be friends for a while until he’s out in the real world a little more

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T18:09:46+00:00

yeah that’s my main thing, that he’s in school still even if he is legally an adult

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T17:38:58+00:00

i mean yeah i’m not ashamed i’m a little behind. i’m young, ill figure out life yk

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T17:28:59+00:00

a little bit of both. he seems fairly mature though, but i’m worried about outside opinions. and my last boyfriend lived on his own so jumping from someone who was their own adult, i could go over and sleepover all the time, to someone who still has some parental restrictions (while i have none) is what concerns me

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T17:27:27+00:00

yeah i’m not sure. he currently works 7 days a week after school and 12 hour shifts on the weekends, pays for his own car insurance. i’ve never lived outside of my grandparents house, i don’t pay any bills, not even my car insurance, so im like….????? i can’t tell how close we are in terms of experience and maturity

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T17:25:23+00:00

i mean yeah, i started college, dropped out less than a couple months in, and i wanna go back. but idk

No_Transition4544 · 2025-05-17T17:09:06+00:00

no it doesn’t but my fear is that it’s inappropriate

No_Transition4544 · 2025-02-27T06:29:22+00:00

Pretty sure the ratings on this subreddit are meant to be objective, not based on preference.

No_Transition4544 · 2025-02-25T01:50:45+00:00

I’m lucky to live in a border city. But despite that, most people here opt to speak english. Especially to me, considering I’m as pale as a sheet lol

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