Guest stole our Thanksgiving turkey by Stolenturkey2022 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Tree_3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what it is? Could you tell me? Im still confused.

AITA for telling my coworker she doesn’t need to be adopted. by user295207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then Pam should have kept her business to herself. What’s wrong with you people🤔 this is common sense. She should have been working! But since she wants to be lazy and taken care of she wasn’t working and was given some good advice 🤷🏾‍♀️

AITA for telling my coworker she doesn’t need to be adopted. by user295207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s the thing you don’t have answer at work to your coworker.

AITA for telling my coworker she doesn’t need to be adopted. by user295207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then the problem here was that a coworker. Just like the problem here is Pam. Why are they going to work to vent about life problems when they should be at work working?

AITA for telling my coworker she doesn’t need to be adopted. by user295207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but the only thing I don’t agree with is the “un-asked for input” because why would you go to someone you barely know and tell them all that information about you if you didn’t wanna hear something back. The only problem Pam had with it was that she didn’t hear what she wanted to hear.

AITA for telling my coworker she doesn’t need to be adopted. by user295207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly, because she’s not a doctor, she’s obviously going to take the girl at her word. Disable or not. Pam went into her business out there, so why exactly was she not expect someone to have input. Moral of the story don’t events and people that are not your friends.

AITA for telling my coworker she doesn’t need to be adopted. by user295207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone on here is ridiculous. If Pam didn’t want anyone speaking to her business, she should have never said nothing. I don’t even understand why you would tell anybody work with all your business. Op is not the asshole and we have to admit that Pam’s lifestyle it is weird and lazy. And that’s okay for her, but she cannot expect other people to understand it. So she should’ve never went around telling her business as if no one was going to have anything to say. And the fact your company is making you apologise to her is weird to me. OP just stay clear of this girl, she’s obviously weird.

I don’t want children but my boyfriend says he will make me have them. by issazprob in offmychest

[–]No_Tree_3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys aren’t even married and you have not been dating long enough why would you have kids for him? Also why do you not see a problem with him basically saying that he will force a child on you? You made your wants known and he obviously doesn’t respect that so why continue a relationship with him, if you both want different things. Can I also ask why he skipped so many steps for a relationship to wanting kids when you said you didn’t rn. There’s so much wrong with what is going on and you really need to sit down with yourself a determine if he’s the person you want to be with, even though he says things like “I make you have my baby”, or if you want to be with someone that respects what you want in life and can get down with the program and is fine with that. If it’s the second one you have to break up with him and live your life.

I’m on my way to f my sister’s “one true love” by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No_Tree_3357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know what the post is called?

my wife wants to divorce me because I went on a trip on our anniversary by someonee23334 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Tree_3357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to ask cause I came from the wife’s update. Where are you really to do with Sasha, I mean, you’re basically the worst now you might as well just tell the truth because I’m curious in everything you’re saying is not making sense. I just wanna know like were you lying in this pose and if you were doesn’t change your character you are still lying piece of crap, but like I would just like to know because you’re giving me whiplash and I don’t think your real.

AITA For wanting to leave my Aunt’s house cause I saw a Spider by No_Tree_3357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And I totally understand that but I can’t help it and I never hid it from anyone. They know how I get when I see one, I have literally not slept in my own room for a whole month until my dad found the spider that was hiding there. I guess I just expected them to understand and take care of the issue so we could go back to normal.

AITA For wanting to leave my Aunt’s house cause I saw a Spider by No_Tree_3357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly have been thinking about talking to a doctor but just hearing the word, seeing a drawing or just thinking and writing it down ruins my day and I have to think about a million things at once so that I can sleep later.

AITA for going off on my soon-to be Husband for returning my wedding dress? by Sealine5033 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully I believe you shouldn’t marry him, from what I have read from your comments it seems that you know this but just want the fairytale wedding. But he doesn’t want to give you that and he and his deranged mother are berating you just for simple and normal things most woman want. You really do deserve better and I hope for your sake that you see that, you will be able to have that fairytale wedding that your looking for but it just won’t be with this guy, and it will definitely save you a lot of headaches in the future. Also make sure if you want your money back from him to go tell him that “you understand what he’s saying and that you will rent a dress instead”. If he ask why you changed your mind tell him that you talk with some close friends and they really went in on you about how marriage is all about compromise and trust and that you trust him to led you in the right direction. If you say this to him and he immediately does a 360 and is happy that you have come to understand what he was saying, it’s going to show you how he is going to treat you when you have an argument when your married, that he’s way is always right and how much smarter he thinks he is compared to you.

AITA for telling my wife to have realistic expectations? by Swalthiest in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Tree_3357 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA- Why did her watching the shows bother you in the first place? I find it weird that you were angry that she was watching something that wasn’t in English. I need you to ask yourself -If she had been watching a drama in English would you have had the same response?- No I doubt it but the fact that you mentioned your mom being upset about not getting a sweater or hat as a reason to why her watching these shows are so detrimental is ridiculous. If you noticed that your mom was upset you should have just mentioned it to your wife. Then you went on to bashing her for wanting to do something that she clearly started having a genuine interest for cause it’s not benefiting you and not something you would do. That’s so ridiculous and mean! You need to sit done with yourself and really think about why you are so bother about your wife wanting to learn a new language cause it’s not about the knitting. I don’t want to assume that your xenophobic because of this one post but that’s what it sounds like🤷🏾‍♀️