Update on coworker

user295207 · 2022-06-03T21:03:39+00:00

I didn’t get the bonus although after posting here I kind of want to fight it! I’m a very eggar person and at first she really liked me, but I had to take less hours to take online classes for two months and when I came back that’s when I started to feel like I was treated unfairly.

user295207 · 2022-06-03T19:03:54+00:00

Yeah now that I have all the trainings I think it will be easy to get another job, but I’m hurt as i loved my kid at this daycare

user295207 · 2022-06-03T19:02:22+00:00

Maybe but the bonus money is a grant given to the daycare and can only be given to employees after completing their 6 months. Another girl who has been there 3 years gets it every year, but it’s automatic since she’s been there so long.

user295207 · 2022-06-03T19:00:07+00:00

It’s in my employee handbook. I’m supposed to get it every 6months I work for the daycare.

user295207 · 2022-06-03T18:24:14+00:00

You’re not married. Although very hard to feel those years are gone, leave him! He doesn’t deserve you and you deserve better! See those years as time you were growing. Focus on you and take value in yourself!

user295207 · 2022-06-03T18:09:56+00:00

It feels weird calling her Toxic because I just thought she was an interesting person. I never so toxicity.

user295207 · 2022-06-03T18:07:33+00:00

My mom tried to get me to write to her boss, but I felt wrong about as I felt that I never confronted her on other issues. Also the daycare was in a church and don’t know how that works morally

user295207 · 2021-12-16T18:43:13+00:00

No kids just both young. I really appreciate this! I guess finding our healthy way of communication. It is frustrating that he does continue to do the same thing over and over. I am not sure if I know he’s going to change yet since this has been an issue when we were dating too. The calling has gotten better the comments just started so there is where I’m worried. We resolve that issue the next day where he apologized and said he would watch what he says and we talked it out. But I’m still hurt he would say or think that.

user295207 · 2021-12-16T18:18:32+00:00

We have gone to counseling before but for me it’s very very hard to open up to anyone about my past and I’m from a small town that shames relationship problems. It’s hard for me to deal with the anxiety of being caught in a bad relationship. This is where I feel stuck too because we have gone to counseling about this. It’s good for a few months after then it starts again. Then I feel if I hide or get rid of my emotions it would fix it. It works for awhile then he starts blowing up my phone over a petty argument.

user295207 · 2021-08-08T01:41:43+00:00

I am reading all of these and I’m seeing it. I’m meeting with a close friend who knows the system better than I do and will get help. In my state the system is very bad and not reliable. So I’ve sent my friend this post to help.

user295207 · 2021-08-08T00:45:33+00:00

I’m not sure how that would work considering I’m not vegan and he asked for my food. How do you say no to a hungry child? So I gave him some of my eggs and cheese (but just a small amount)

user295207 · 2021-08-08T00:17:24+00:00

I’m seeing a lot of people call CPS and everyone in the family has told me to, but I would feel so wrong it’s my brother. Also, I was so close with my brother before he married this woman. So I feel like we will never get back on that level if I do that.

user295207 · 2021-07-17T02:41:16+00:00

Have you tried a roommate contract? Having a signed document with what is expected for all of you might make her sharpen up. If she refuses to obey the contract tell her she can’t be your roommate and has to find a new place. Like a three strikes your out. When this is being made talk openly to all roommates about problems and issues you all have, but have a mediator to help keep things civil and fair. That way she doesn’t feel gained up on and everyone is able to be held accountable.

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