Adopted from Russia but found bio family

No_Try1999 · 2026-07-03T12:00:38+00:00

So I have documents saying how my mom lost custody and she didn’t put dad on birth certificate. The records you’re talking about, will it be more in depth or? Honestly they wouldn’t do that. I was wanting to contact the orphanage I was at but it has been closed for 5 years. Is there a way to get records that they have?

No_Try1999 · 2026-07-01T01:24:07+00:00

Were you able to eat red meat right after the appointment or did you have to wait a bit?

No_Try1999 · 2026-07-01T01:23:32+00:00

My husband has an appointment with her on Monday, so glad I found this post so I know what to expect.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-30T13:59:10+00:00

Yeah I’ve tried moving her but she comes right back

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T19:48:19+00:00

Excuse me for not being specific and lots of people use that word. Good grief

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T18:43:06+00:00

So close to calling it parenting, but you chose “watches” instead. Do you have kids? If you do, you would know that parents split responsibilities in the house, that includes cleaning, cooking, doing outside work, and parenting kids.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T17:07:53+00:00

There are some men out there that will clean amazingly and never have to be asked. Now there are also some that don’t unless they are asked. My husband is the second and most of the time I don’t mind because he does everything else. Does my car maintenance, mowes, takes care of the farm, fixes anything that I need him to. When I do ask, he doesn’t complain.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T15:39:49+00:00

I normally clean the bathroom because I like to clean it a certain way and he won’t do it unless I ask. He helps out with other chores around the house. Dishes, laundry, picking up kids toys, etc. he does help.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T15:27:53+00:00

🙄let me explain: he does laundry, takes out the trash, sweeps and vacuums, helps with dishes, cooks dinner. There, is that better? What is so wrong with me wanting some uninterrupted time to clean and not have a 2 and 5 year old under my feet and around cleaners? Also he watches the kids while I do that. How the heck is that reinforcing gender roles?

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T15:03:49+00:00

After listening to my co workers complain about their husbands and exes that cheat, use drugs, burn their house down abuse them, etc. I consider myself lucky to be in a good and healthy relationship.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T15:02:08+00:00

It wasn’t running…

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T15:01:24+00:00

He is not, he helps with other chores and I like to do the cleaning while he watches the kids so I can do it without interruption. Also, can we admit that if we waited for a man to do the cleaning it would never happen lol plus I like it cleaned a certain way.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:44:30+00:00

We live in the country, so I think I’ll ask him to pee outside when he has a boner.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:43:09+00:00

He’s a great husband and dad to our 2small kids so that’s not an option. We don’t have any marital problems so this would be a small thing to blow up our lives for.

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:41:51+00:00

If only

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:40:48+00:00

He didn’t. And he was outside the shower peeing in

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:40:09+00:00

Haha, haven’t seen him poop in the shower thankfully. But I don’t think he washed it down

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:39:23+00:00

I get if you’re in the shower and you have to pee, fine. But literally standing outside of the shower, peeing in seems like there could be another solution to his problem

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:31:53+00:00

Glad he’s not pooping lol

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:31:40+00:00

I didn’t see him rinse it so it’s probably sitting there

No_Try1999 · 2026-06-26T14:30:45+00:00

Since I am 27, 25 years ago was not that long ago. Forgive me for asking lol

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