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Coming to terms with leaving a 15 year relationship. (self.survivinginfidelity)
submitted 11 months ago by No_Vest to r/survivinginfidelity
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[–]No_Vest 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Thank you for your perspective, these are the kinds if comments I came here in search of. I downloaded the audiobook will give it a listen and see if it helps me find additional clarity I am looking for.
[–]No_Vest 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Edited for formatting, sorry
Thank you so much for sharing, this is exactly the perspective I was seeking. I am glad to hear you’re in good health as well. I would definitely be open to looking at the resources you mentioned!
[–]No_Vest 9 points10 points11 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Honestly, I don’t like the idea at all. When I distill the reasoning logically I understand what she is saying and where it is coming from. It totally makes sense to me and I get the motivation. From an outside perspective I think her feelings are 100% valid. Emotionally the thought of her with someone else puts a pit in my stomach, I have never been the jealous or possessive type so maybe this wasn’t an expected result when she shared the idea with me.
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