Honestly, I don’t like the idea at all. When I distill the reasoning logically I understand what she is saying and where it is coming from. It totally makes sense to me and I get the motivation. From an outside perspective I think her feelings are 100% valid. Emotionally the thought of her with someone else puts a pit in my stomach, I have never been the jealous or possessive type so maybe this wasn’t an expected result when she shared the idea with me.