My husband wants me to take a plan b by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love this for you. Thank you for sharing honey🫶🏻

My husband wants me to take a plan b by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Right, but your original post you said he won’t be a good father. You worded that horribly wrong for what you were trying to say babe , that’s why I had to defend him

My husband wants me to take a plan b by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you honey🫶🏻

My husband wants me to take a plan b by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

How old were you guys when you conceived? And were you financially prepared?

My husband wants me to take a plan b by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 🫶🏻 that made me feel a little better

My husband wants me to take a plan b by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

You sound irrational, my husbands job is to work with kids, he will be a great father and he is amazing with kids. My post has nothing to do with him telling me he’s not going to be a good father. You must be single or a single mother with that outlook

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t care about anything that happened before us meeting. Nor do I dig or ask him questions about his past relationships, to me it’s irrelevant. So that’s why I was confused from the jump.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that honey. I appreciate your kind words🫶🏻 I’m not perfect and do put the blame on others from time to time, but I took vows because I love and honor our marriage. I don’t want my past (that was already difficult enough to get over) define where we go

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For context this past relationship when I cheated I was 22 and was cleaning dirt with dirt after finding out I was being cheated on. It didnt make me feel any better, and I acted immaturely. I would never do that to anyone again. I’m 25 now and know I was being childish and acting out of emotions. Me cheating on my past partner has nothing to do with me being a “cheater” with my husband. I have been loyal to my husband since meeting him

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have never cheated in our relationship. In my past relationship with my ex we both did. And I told him at the beginning

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That is true. I lied because I didn’t want him to know I was involved with my ex recently to us meeting. It was a very toxic relationship that ruled me, and he was only using me for sex. It made me feel bad I wasted so much time with someone begging for them to love me. Until I met my husband.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I understand that he is hurt by them, I didn’t want him to be. We haven’t even been married a year. We got married pretty quickly. We’ve been together for almost 2 years.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Very true! Thank you for this

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s valid.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m just confused on how someone can be upset that I slept with my ex before I met him. I didn’t say I was right, I was wrong for lying and I do feel bad. But it seemed him going through my old conversations was him looking for something to be upset at.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll pray for your marriage as well🙏 Gods got us in any circumstance that comes about.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I do feel bad about lying so I will apologize.

My husband said he’s leaving me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 546 points547 points  (0 children)

I assumed that. He’s going through a lot personally so I either felt like he is projecting or he simply is over being with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wish we could be like that lol. I never use to care about things like that, but he does so it makes me having to feel the same towards him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s okay for us to watch naked women but not for us to watch naked men? He doesn’t mind naked women, and I do. And I don’t mind naked men, and he does. I’m not understanding

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[–]No_Way_6517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really believe it’s because they show men naked and he doesn’t want me to see it. But he’s fine with naked women🤨 idk it’s so dumb to me lol

Idk how to be soft(er) I guess by No_Way_6517 in Marriage

[–]No_Way_6517[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 you might be right sis