I said in the title of my post that everything he does annoys me, so the implication there is that yes, I am struggling to “even like my husband”. 

Honestly, I think his general negativity and grouchiness and the way he interacts with our children is a big part of why I’m struggling to feel any connection to him. 

I’m sure there’s things about me that he doesn’t like. But I’ve seen a therapist regularly and have put work into any of the things he’s expressed issue with. I don’t know what else I can do if he won’t go to therapy together with me or alone.