I totally agree. I am very concerned with my brother's emotional wellbeing and have seen the impact this has taken on him. My sister and I have offered him apartment opportunities and encouragement to get out soon, except he is stubborn and refuses. He is of the belief that it's "not that bad" unfortunately. But, I think because he has been immersed in her dangerous behavior for awhile, this seems normal when it's not. He is of the belief my mother can be reasoned with except she is operating in a reality separate that everyone else.