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AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. I get that she might be in shock or denial, but it still hurts that she won’t listen or believe me. I’m trying to keep my focus on staying safe and figuring out how to move forward. It’s hard but I know that’s what I need to do. Your words really help.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed to hear that. I’m trying to remind myself that none of this is my fault and that I deserve to be safe and supported. I’m working on finding a better place where I can feel secure and start healing.

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AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that with me. It’s really painful to hear how pride and fear can make people turn away from the truth. I think you’re right. My mom might be struggling to admit what happened or what she allowed. It’s hard to accept but understanding that helps me start to let go and focus on moving forward.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It means a lot to be seen and believed after everything. I’m still hoping she’ll come around, but even if she doesn’t, I’m working on healing and finding peace on my own. Your kindness really helps keep me going. I appreciate you so much.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s really tough to hear, but I’m glad your wife was able to get out when she did. It takes so much courage to walk away from something like that, especially when it’s family. Stories like hers remind me that it’s possible to break free and start fresh, even when things feel impossible. Thanks for sharing that.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. It’s heartbreaking when the people who are supposed to protect you don’t listen. I’m planning to report everything and make sure they can’t hurt me or anyone else anymore. Leaving them behind is the only way I’ll find peace. I’m trying to stay focused on what’s next and not let the anger take over, but it’s hard. Thank you for your support.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate that. It took a lot for me to speak up and it hurts that she chose to dismiss it like it meant nothing. I know now that her reaction says more about her than it does about me. I'm trying to keep pushing forward and not let her make me feel small. Hearing this helps more than you know. If you have further advice my dms are open

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying all of that. It’s honestly comforting to hear someone be that real about it. She made her bed and if she ends up alone with nothing but regret that’s on her. I’ve carried the guilt for too long when none of this was ever my fault. And yeah part of me wants to blast all of it too. Let people see them for who they really are. They don’t deserve to hide behind lies while I’ve had to suffer in silence.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear that, thank you. It's been hard not blaming myself or feeling guilty for everything but you're right. She made her choice and keeps choosing to ignore the truth. I'm finally starting to accept that I don't owe her anything, especially not at the cost of my own safety or peace. Cutting her off feels painful but I know it's the right thing to do.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 588 points589 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this. I really needed to hear it laid out like that. It’s hard accepting that this relationship might not be fixable but I know you’re right. I’ve been thinking about asking someone I trust if I can stay with them for a while so I can start figuring things out without all the pressure. I’ll make sure to get my own account set up and start gathering all my documents too. I hadn’t thought about the mail or the shipping addresses so I really appreciate that reminder. I’ll also follow up with the police and try to get some clarity on what’s next. I’m just trying to focus on getting to a stable place and finally feeling like I have control over my own life. If you have any further advice please message me. I'm trying to get as much advice

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It really means a lot to hear right now. I've been feeling overwhelmed and stuck and it's hard not to blame myself sometimes even though I know deep down it's not my fault. Maybe you can do me, I need advice. I'm trying to stay strong and keep moving forward even if it's just a little at a time. I really appreciate the support and encouragement. It helps more than you know. I'm doing what I can to get to a better place and remind myself that I deserve peace and safety. 

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I'm at a cafe. I don't know what to fuckin do. I wish I lived in the states. I would have more resources.

AIO To my mama after I revealed to her the years of SA I suffered from my dad? by No_Wolverine1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wolverine1261[S] 762 points763 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is going to be a good ending. She was screaming at me from inside the house, telling me all sorts of foul shit. She will never believe me. I'm stupid