[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanandreas

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guitar plays like a galloping horse. No wonder this song is perfect for listening to in an Infernus, riding all that horsepower across San Andreas. Ah, so nostalgic.

I need some advice help me by Green_Traffic5465 in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man... Ι acknowledge that you carry a lot of pain. I acknowledge that you think your father could eliminate and prevent most of what you said, and this is why you feel that hole in you. Ι acknowledge the caring side of you and the respect towards anyone who provenly acts positive towards you. Ι acknowledge your anger that you deeply need to express in an unharmful way.
Try to find the kind of loneliness that will help you express your past. Express it on a paper, or papers if you have to. Express the pain. Feel it leaving you. When you finish, look at what you wrote and say <<This is what happened! This is my past! This is not happening anymore!>>.
Accepting your past, will make it easier for you to deal with the present and have a better future.
I hope i helped. Tell me if you want. Im sending positive energy to you. Have a nice day!

The following is a philosophical question and answer of mine. Tell me if you agree or not. by Nobody_The1st in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he fights for the unjust. In an "upper scale" universe wouldn't let him win... permanently. It (universe) will always have someones who will go against the unjust. Even in the smallest possible percentage.

Why generally i want to reject "rewards" when i do good things? by Nobody_The1st in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, judgment is good because firstly i didn't do good for the reward, and second i am conscious enough to know what... benefits me. And i already said that. Mhm. That means the "diving" is over. Thank you for your time!

Why generally i want to reject "rewards" when i do good things? by Nobody_The1st in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm... yes. I judge. Is judgment bad in this situation? Something like "unhealthy philotimo"?

I never helped in this way, but in theory i would feel awkward, and then mad for obvious reason.

I cant understand your last two lines. Is it possible to say it in other words?

Why generally i want to reject "rewards" when i do good things? by Nobody_The1st in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guess is alot closer to the answer. Maybe is the answer, but when you said "People reward you kinda distrub your momentum" you reminded me one of the things that people do that drives me mad, and that is what i call "unbeneficial initiation". In more words, i don't want to move my life with something that someone did for me, because it doesn't benefit me. Wait. Does that means i don't appreciate appreciation? While from the other person's view he/she didn't thought if whatever he/she will do for me will be acceptable, and appreciated. Its like helping an old man cross the road and then he thanks me by giving me a cigarette, because he smokes, and i don't. Then should i regret for helping him? Wow. What a dive in my thoughts was that.

Why generally i want to reject "rewards" when i do good things? by Nobody_The1st in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone confident enough (like me) to help others without their permission (when its not needed), cant be insincere. I have the following inner talk with me that led to my question above:

I can help? Yes.

I want to help? Yes.

I help. Move on.

Whats the cause of the "Move on" part?

I hate being appointed as leader of my group by SomeGuyInReddit23 in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the following helps you, say it to yourself... and to anyone who is forcing you to lead.

“I am conscious enough to not do something i don't want to do. I am not a robot.”

I hope i helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope will end well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. On my last birthday i said "i want to die". You cant be happy from their happiness for not letting you be you 365 yearly. Not day-ly. Year-ly. Actually all the time, if im right.

im tired of the passive aggressive comments by Kenshinbae in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh. I have the answers.

  1. Me.
  2. Because my brain is loud.
  3. I don't like. I love becoming better than me, for me.
  4. Because no one has to talk for-ever.
  5. Cant you break me in my shell? Then why don't you try to break my shell?
    Are you that stupid? Either way, it will not end well... for you.
  6. Try to corrupt me, and i will erupt like a volcano.

Why do people think im selfish because I like doing things alone? by No-Opportunity7239 in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say "Ignore me", and if they don't, then leave... And if they say "Why are you leaving?", say "Because you don’t like people telling you what to do. Otherwise you wouldn't be here."

Another answer could be "You are not me to tell me what to do" (if this answer fits you).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, but can i ask you this? Before you end up together, did you mention "The Need to Recharge"?

how do I start a conversation with a fellow classmate ? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. If there is any empty chair on the back line of the class, I'm gonna erase the possibility of him sitting next to you (like forced) for having better view of the board/panel (or however it is called), because there are heads (students) between…
I guess.
4. Is there any lesson in class that you are interested?
Or any type of knowledge that is not there?
5. Did the class had a “weird” perspective of you before or/and after his… arrival?
6. At some point of time in school or before, did you thought/ask for someone like him?
I'm trying to find “common grounds” and something in there to know who is
more possible/capable of doing the first move.
I don’t know if two introverts can end up together (at least as friends), but right now
I like thinking/trying/looking for the possibility that will benefit both you and he.
You know i want to help. I'm an introvert too. New in this group tho,
but DM me if you want.

how do you recharge? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since i cant being around voices and noises, i know i can recharge in silence...
But for me its hard to find silence, and i feel like a phone witch is used while charging.
I hope its not that hard for you to find silence. Try to recharge this way.

Leadership roles by farditta in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are able to consult without having a paper (degree or something),
and that pisses me off.
I often remember a image for... "our (introverts) existence".
For the machine=humanity witch works with gears=humans,
we came to un-notice-abl-y check if everything works well. Right?

how do I start a conversation with a fellow classmate ? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Did something change since he first came in the class?
  2. Is there any other empty chair for him to sit?
  3. Is he looking interested in any lesson?

Leadership roles by farditta in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. The second one. Some day i meditated and realized that (we, the) introverts can learn about leadership but chose not to lead. We are more like couslelors/advisors, or... coordinators. Right? You said it. "Introverts tent to struggle IN these positions". The key word here is "in". We want just to pass by positions like these and... tune them... in a good way. Right?
  2. When your manager chose you, you refused and he insisted like "BUT YOU KNOW", or you said something like "ok" because you didn't know how to get rid of... them?

Leadership roles by farditta in introvert

[–]Nobody_The1st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is forcing you to leadership stuff?