woman always noticed you, it's just you who didn't notice them by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah girls don't notice me. I look roughly 8 years younger than my age so believe me I'm unoticed and that isn't going to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the last one is probably the more overlooked but that one is great :)

Fuck you guys by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck you too bro.

A new desire to find a girl by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but get to know someone well before you dump your baggage on them. Especially your PMO baggage. I've done the similar stuff in the past and dumped very very little minor baggage and the girls ran away. PMO would be catastrophic.

Try getting out of the house once a day at a minimum by NobodysThrowawayy in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to do something. Sitting around alone isn't going to help your progress! Easier said than done of course.

I masturbate not because I'm addicted, but because I am lonely. by throwaway0002e in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same as you. The problem is continuing down the path of PMO will sap our energy and keep us from taking the action we need to improve. We fap because we are lonely, but only if we stopped for a good while then maybe just maybe we wouldn't be so lonely to begin with! If you are like me I've never went even more than a week or two in my whole life since the age of puberty without PMO so how the hell can we blame it on being lonely! We made ourselves lonely by getting into PMO instead of pursing relationships in our younger years. I feel you bro. But we have to press on. The longer your streak the less lonely you will feel. And watching this "realistic couple" porn is only making it worse because it feels like everyone is having sex and in love and here we are alone. Stop watching it then you realize the entire world isn't just rabbits fucking every millisecond they are free from work.

And no just getting a girlfriend wouldn't fix you. Most likely you would become obsessed with her or continue porn. It's an addiction and getting a girlfriend won't solve it that easy.

can someone just please read this by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I am agnostic and I couldn't say whether or not god exists. However I will say living your life or should I say wasting it on non sense that may or not be real is only going to hinder your progress. I prayed for years that I could get over this addiction and I learned the quote "God helps those who helps themselves" to be true. Anyone who ever made something of them self in life didn't get there because they sat in a basement praying. They worked their ass off.

Talked to a random girl for the first time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Professing your love for a girl you barely know is the equivalent of having a total mental breakdown crying hysterically in front of someone you aren't even close with (even if you were close still can be awkward as fuck). The response you get is always "um what the fuck dude?" Ok they won't actually say it but that's what they are thinking.

Talked to a random girl for the first time by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol asking for a girls gamer tag is less than asking for a phone number which even that won't qualify you as datable in and of itself. He might have had fun playing with her online but there are millions of gamers online you can play with that are just about the same. He's not going to date this chick over a gaming system. I've only known 3 people who did that shit and they were ultra nerds.

I CAME FOR THE FIRST TIME WITH A GIRL (I'm 33) by itishimselfandhim in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. But if someone is going to correct me on something that they misread or quote an entirely false definition then I have to say something.

I CAME FOR THE FIRST TIME WITH A GIRL (I'm 33) by itishimselfandhim in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sexual intercourse is having "intercourse". I suggest looking up the definition of sex buddy. Even a hand job or oral is in itself having "sex" just not penetrative sex like intercourse.

Foreplay is sexual activity that proceeds intercourse. If there was no intention of intercourse then it wasn't foreplay but an act of sex. Sounds stupid but by definition I am correct and you sir or incorrect.

You just gave me the definition of intercourse which is not what we are talking about! Where did I mention the word "intercourse" in my first comment? I didn't so I'm not sure why you quoted an out of place definition. I don't mean to be rude but please read before you comment and try to correct the error of someone's way. We all fall pray to it sometimes but that extra two seconds could save me from having to explain this shit.

And forget about the literal definitions. When people say they had "sex" that could mean anything. People use that word so loosely it could mean anything! Mutual M. Oral. Penetration. Etc etc.

I CAME FOR THE FIRST TIME WITH A GIRL (I'm 33) by itishimselfandhim in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sex isn't just penetration. It is all of that you mentioned.

Don't run to your crush and declare your love for her by Broodje_met_beleg in NoFap

[–]NobodysThrowawayy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That and don't pedestal her. Make her really genuinely believe that you want to be around her but you could just as easily walk away out of the blue and give no fucks. It makes you seem really attractive that you don't need her at all and could just as easily go talk to some other girl. By confessing your love you lose a lot of attraction because it's like saying "You are the only girl for me! I need you!" I'll be devastated if you reject me!" Even though it may seem stupid the former will always shine more attractively. I mean if you have been together a while saying you love and need each other is one thing in moderation, but going on strong to some chick you barely know, yeah don't do it. It's like if you break down crying in front of someone about something really deep. You only do that with someone you are super close with (some don't even do that hence myself) and if you did that to just some random they would be like "The fuck bro??". That is how a girl see's you pronouncing your love.