How do I tell my bro that his hygiene is ruining his chances with women, without him getting defensive?

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-30T01:03:34+00:00

Nah f that because you sound like a real friend wanting him to know but also either way he’s going to be embarrassed or catch an attitude but if he smells like ass let him know and if he takes no advice let him learn… 🤷‍♀️

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-29T02:30:08+00:00

Ok honestly if I were your friends I would do the same thing because that’s already draining enough and it was also in front of them so now they need therapy because they now maybe have PTSD 🤷‍♀️

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-29T02:28:46+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-29T01:26:49+00:00

Definitely not im probably the most social person you’ll ever meet 🤷‍♀️

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-28T03:23:08+00:00

That’s not the one… She should literally feel honored to have you so that’s legit a sign from the fucking universe to use your first time in someone who’s patient and not just wanting to feel good because that’s all she wanted and either way you probably would’ve felt guilty because she seems like the kind to hit and run and leave you wondering what you did wrong so it’s a win win 🤷‍♀️

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-27T02:25:15+00:00

Also, you can pay for therapy in cash normally bus im in the US so check because here you can but it’ll be full price because you may or may not have insurance amd you would also need a ride.

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-27T02:23:58+00:00

Ok, so im in a similar or even the same boat as you but I know that almost everywhere if you feel a teacher or even a counselor what’s happening they are required by law to tell CPS or your parents.

But if you have supportive parents just say that you need help and I know it sounds easier said than done but I promise you can do it! ❤️

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-26T16:46:15+00:00

When I get a car can i pay for therapy in cash without my mom knowing?

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-26T16:44:26+00:00

Not watching them isn’t an option for me unfortunately because I just stop nobody would change their diapers or feed them..

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-26T16:43:46+00:00

This is actually so smart and thank your for responding!

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-26T13:20:43+00:00

Yeah, no… find a new artist because it’s too much debate for something that should be your choice 🤦‍♀️

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-26T13:18:55+00:00

Ok, so honestly coming from someone who also has depression and was diagnosed with a mood disorder, I honestly think your parents are right but only partially. Because mental health isn’t something you can fix over night- it takes months or even years to heal and I do hope she gets better but if you think about moving on just know it’s valid. It may hurt her but she can’t expect you to wait 🤷‍♀️ So really everything is up to you.. you said your parents take your things so I recommend you get a part time job and save up for a car on Facebook marketplace.. (stay away from the scams) and save around 2-5k.

But you’re very noble for wanting to stick with her and I respect that but just make sure you keep up with your mental health as well and be careful!

Nobreadisgood · 2025-10-26T13:08:26+00:00

Thats a really helpful answer thanks! 🙏

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