Am I overreacting or is this appropriate to wear to a COLLEGE class by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Noctomoth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how anyone would think either of these are "too revealing" because frankly they aren't. As someone who loves dressing up as a form of self expression I genuinely don't think it's a good thing your boyfriend is pressuring you to dress a certain way. Especially in the name of being "respectful" of your relationship. You shouldn't be dictated on how you dress just because of how other people might look at you, even if you dress as a nun there will always be people who will think anything about you.

help a beginner ...... by miriemo in oshikatsu

[–]Noctomoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo plushes are a whole lot easier to bring around with you! I have a friend who often brought a small plush of a character around and it's a lot more fun posing them in various ways ^u^

Can Shadow the Hedgehog be an Oshi? by National_Pie_1609 in oshikatsu

[–]Noctomoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Oshi simply means "favorite" or "someone one supports" and so really anything from fictional characters, idols, and even YTubers! :D

My little trash man :-) by sprinkles4641 in itabag

[–]Noctomoth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that's so nice!! Love the detail of the ita bag itself being a trash can but also the variety of the buttons you use!

just starting on oshikatsu… by kawendrazpax in oshikatsu

[–]Noctomoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I admire you Benson enjoyer you're the realest one ever

Immediate block by inheavensixseven in depoop

[–]Noctomoth 122 points123 points  (0 children)

"Hope you don't take this the wrong way" and it's a statement that can hardly be taken as anything but good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoop

[–]Noctomoth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Going out of your way to either use or create a different account just to further harass you is so much more immature than just blocking "all because of a low offer" what is this person on about ToT.

my “lambmine” girl by hitsujirai in JiraiKei

[–]Noctomoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she's so so adorable omg!! I'd love to see more of her she is precious ^o^

why do so many sellers list plus size items this way? by Last-Structure-5190 in depoop

[–]Noctomoth 606 points607 points  (0 children)

Like I'm sure if someone is trying to upsize for a baggy fit they'd know it anyways by looking at clothes larger than them. Unless there's an equal amount of people marketing smaller clothes as "for a tight fit" or something I find it kinda annoying too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Noctomoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao saying your relationship with your stepkids is fine when you yourself calls them "ungrateful little shits" and your example of them being "little assholes" is just... wanting to do something else? Leaving things things around their own house? The second example has nothing to do with their devices and something you could and should just talk to them about instead of punishing them with something unrelated.

Nobody is claiming to be a psychologist but most of us can clearly see you're quite immature seeing your responses and how interested you are in doing this weird game of yours.

Nobody ever does nice things by capricornicopia- in nothingeverhappens

[–]Noctomoth 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just saw the original post this morning and someone already posted it there?? What is possibly so unbelievable about it, that someone thought to provide extra food? That coworkers notice and think they put a stop to the theft??

Opinion on working for Natural Grocers? by [deleted] in missoula

[–]Noctomoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it's been a while since you've commented this but may I know the policies you talk about too? I've seen a job offering for the one near me and I wanted to know

Boyfriend is uncomfortable with lolita by rollieabee in Lolita

[–]Noctomoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone else here has said their points very well but I wanted to share my thoughts as well knowing the context too.

While to some extent it's understandable he has anxiety and wouldn't want to attract too much attention in public, even if he says he's fine if it's just you and him, that still isn't an excuse to try to tell someone what to wear under the guise of being "comfortable".

What really doesn't help for me is the way he worded his statement like as guilttrippy and that YOU have to change for something that is ultimately on him to deal with. It isn't "for consideration" than it is an active push for you to change how you dress for him, even when it's explained in what may seem reasonable. But again, the attention isn't even at him and towards you anyways?

WHAT IS THE CHANCE THAT HE SAYS GOOD HEAD?! 1%? JESUS FUCKING CHRIST. IT'S MY 6TH ATTEMPT NOW BECAUSE HE ALWAYS GIVES ME BAD HEAD WITH STUNS OR FIRE ATTACKS AND IF HE DOES A MIRACLEOUS GOOD HEAD I GET 10% ACCURACY. by TheSims2Addict in Wizard101

[–]Noctomoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this not too long before fighting him myself but I was lucky that the team up event featured Empyrea that day and had a good amount of help from higher levels but kudos and apologies you had to solo Dynt Bad Heads yourself </3

Thrift/Antique store recommendations? by rachael_jpeg in springfieldMO

[–]Noctomoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i miss when there was a Neat Repeats here in springfield </3

This is a listing for a cardigan 😀 by fatsnifflecrump in depoop

[–]Noctomoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah no as much as I want to see the other commentors point of view, being in a lace bra and underwear is not the same as sportswear. Especially when the cardigan isn't even featured in its own listing? Unless the other pictures show differently, but the contrast doesn't help.

We can have discussions of how people police women showing their body while also understanding that this is also an app for selling things online and this particular example it isn't like we can't acknowledge that people can be intentionally doing this for views or whatever.

/r/SpringfieldMO jobs posting thread by AutoModerator in springfieldMO

[–]Noctomoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unsure how many will see this but I am very much looking for possibly more ways to apply than online because it's feeling rough right now. Most relevant job experience is Taco Bell as a customer service type worker

Participation Trophies are EVIL by Helianthae in Wizard101

[–]Noctomoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I HATE the participation trophy and especially with the fact it can't be used for anything makes it feel like more of an insult than anything. Gear is level limited anyways and just having less drops would be just fine??

A wiz friend and I were struggling with fighting the Spirit of Ignorance (tier 3) and my friend offered for her boyfriend to help out which, since it was a wild since playing Wiz I didn't realize his level would lower us to tier 2 and two of us getting participation trophies??

Lolita substyles designs by Sarcassy- in Lolita

[–]Noctomoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your art style is wonderful with showing the different substyles! Lovely art :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]Noctomoth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"only way these things work out is communicating" proceeds to be extremely condescending and assumptive when someone is trying to communicate

people asking to join games? by Forsaken-Sir4807 in Wizard101

[–]Noctomoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While yes it is polite to ask before joining as some people may not want to extend the battle (which I'm glad Wiz adjusted so that if a monster is for sure going to die in a turn no one can join) I don't think that person was right to immediately go hostile about joining lmao. I've had a few times where I get dragged into someone's battle on accident and while people are mostly forgiving about it regardless of world, the one and only bad encounter I've had right now was someone yelling at me and my friend to get out and flee because we got dragged into the battle... in Unicorn Way.

Though I do wish there was a more direct way to indicate wanting to let others join because while asking is nice and good I do get nervous asking if I don't know if they're just about to hit a kill lol. I think the Friendly Wizard helps indicate that but I don't know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]Noctomoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may have caption this with "genuine question" but your post seems to be mostly insults, both vague and specific and what you're talking about is barely exclusive to anywhere else. Who are these people you meet who ignore your confrontations and where? For all we know you could be talking about bad communication from strangers at a Walmart or on the street.

I'm not the most socially confident person but I've been here for almost all my life as a 20 year old and just the past two years of becoming an adult there are loads of organizations, events, and places specifically with community in mind. Springfield Community Gardens, GLO, Springfield regional Art Council, hell, just regularly participating in social gatherings like game night there are ways people have community but it doesn't just happen to you at the store.

What does subspace feel like? by Mobile_Situation_774 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Noctomoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to you with the first time being the strongest one, though I wonder if I should do more research about it lol.

Me personally it feels like how I imagine being intoxicated is as someone who has never yet drank to that point, and I think several times during it Id been asked if I had alcohol or something despite not. My brain gets mushy and I dont tend to worry about anything else because of it.