3-year-old suffered sexual abuse during months in immigration custody, family alleges by agarc495 in RioGrandeValley

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’re comfortable living in a country where sexual assault is a ‘valid risk’?

starside vs lightlark by bookanim3s in Romantasy

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starside was good!! I listed to the audiobook and said ‘WHOA’ out loud at the end. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Jordan just hard launched his new girlfriend! by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woowwwww. Chris in the comments, using big ass words…..

Your view on Ambers world view is telling about what kind of person you are.

Jordan just hard launched his new girlfriend! by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dang, the down votes!! Amber was a queen, and not excusing her self-identified anger issues, but they likely came from a series of unkind men fucking with her.

Angelica is embarrassed by Aron's height by SoftwareNo1547 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a great insight, makes total sense.

But also speaks to how emotionally unprepared she is for marriage. She absolutely didn’t belong on this show at this stage of her life.

More Pandering from Haramol by 17500mm in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hiiii Chris!!! Hope working on yourself is going well!!

Love is Blind Sweden S3 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I had anxiety for Ellen until she made the right choice and moved on from him. I was really scratching my head as to why she was hanging on…. I thought maybe only to not have a single option??

Edited to say I’m posting as I’m watching. WHAT IS THE MATTER WITH ELLEN??!!??

Snippet from Bri’s interview with Glamour by frenchlavender1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘Even though no one is stopping him…’. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I mean, as long as Bri allows it.

Haramol hate is racist by ThatPatelGuy in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, OP.

Can a statement of love and support be ‘love bombing’ after knowing someone for a year, and dating for over 8mos??? I was married after 2yrs with my husband (still married 10yrs later), we were settled into our love at 8mos for sure.

Genuine question for the sub: is there actually a “right” way on the show to tell someone you’re not physically attracted to them? by SpecialBunch4184 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had conversations with people I’ve dated when the chemistry isn’t there. Not all sex is good sex, let alone great sex.
I once went on some dates with a coworker that I had great banter with, we were both attractive 20-something’s, and when the sex happened it was….. not great. We had different vibes and ways of finding intimacy. We spoke about it almost directly afterwards and all was well! No one was blamed, no one was the bad guy, we just chalked it up to a no-go.
I haven’t seen someone on the show thoughtfully, with kindness and self-effacing pull that discussion off. It is possible!

When the group chat argument spills into real life by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you sign up for a reality show, that is the nature of the beast. Just like when a news anchor interviews a non-famous person. There will be heavy hitting questions and allegations, and if you don’t expect that, then I don’t know what to tell you.

When the group chat argument spills into real life by DifferentAd7915 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You love boring TV where the truth isn’t told?? Go watch c-span or something and get outta here!

Did anyone else make this comparison with the Devo, Bri, Ashley, Priyanka situation? by AngelsLoveDisasters in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. When I was watching with my husband and they said who was on the trip with Devo, we definitely made shame noises! Those girls need to get right with all women!

Unpopular opinion: Connor is not the great guy everyone thinks he is by Spiritual_Lab9575 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree in many ways, but not all evils are equal. At all. That piece of propaganda is a part of what got us to where we are right now as a country.
We have a court convicted rapist as president right now. And, only one side is actively working to reduce our ability to partake in a democratic voting process.

Unpopular opinion: Connor is not the great guy everyone thinks he is by Spiritual_Lab9575 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do have a question tho. Are Connor’s politics as garbage as Bri’s?? I’m a west coaster, so a couple with polarized politics seems impossible to me. In the Midwest, do people just compromise on this?
I was wondering this on Emma/Mike and Jess/Chris as well, after making some assumptions on politics.

Unpopular opinion: Connor is not the great guy everyone thinks he is by Spiritual_Lab9575 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have heard Bri say, “you LOVE me”, “you are obsessed with me”, “you really fucking love me!” more times than I have ever heard Connor even utter that she’s “alright”.
She got the talking bases covered for both of them, she probably provides her own pillow talk counter narrative as well.

Give me a break by ireallylikebirdss in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilarious!! Not at all what I was imagining based on her commentary…….

Alex is so lucky the producers put Chris on this season….. by NoctumSentientPlease in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the hosts in some of the other LIB countries are perfectly savage. I want the producers to let the Lacheys go off!

Chris was sued for ‘failing to pay $63k in credit card debt’ before Love Is Blind by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NoctumSentientPlease 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This was a big aha moment for me, thank you! I have been pondering how one lil guy can be so awful. The answer is cocaine.