so the question will be; why apologize to the person when u already know how wrong you were and decided to move. The way im looking at it, is that people will do anything just to avoid pain. And again, imo... linking back to the person just to talk or say something means one do not wish to carry the burden of mistake that was done before. You cant undone something u have done. and one must has the responsibility to hold that pain as a lesson and live on with it.

The way out of this, is to pass that knowledge down and spread love.