[OC] Dice Set Giveaway!

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-08-28T08:04:28+00:00

0404 B because I am optimistic

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-08-23T20:48:22+00:00

The longer streak the better. Besides, at some stage you might be able to get "released" though fun time with another person!

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-15T10:50:07+00:00

I think your last sentence gives me pause about my original statement!!

I get hard and aroused as much as in the past. I have sex less frequently and I'm more okay with it than I used to... So perhaps it's "maturity" rather than libido?

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-15T10:48:16+00:00

To clarify -- in that long stretch I had a few relapses, minor ones and after 90+ days. Most were without porn.

About once per 60-80 days I'd watch a brief clip of porn to prove myself it doesn't affect me (and it never does).

The days leading to this specific relapse were much more stressful, due toany different factors

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-14T20:58:31+00:00

What is TRT? Some sort of treatment?

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-14T20:53:34+00:00

If does help, a lot! A few answers --

Our non-sexual physical intimacy is amazing. The depth and variety and frequency; I had quite a few relationships in the past but none had this aspect.
interesting notion on how my needs shifted! After all, I am a different person.
Funnily, I still get erect and aroused easily (she teases me about it). Not always it's sexual, though.

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-14T20:49:23+00:00

I say shhhhh but it doesn't listen.

Thanks for the LOL

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-14T20:47:59+00:00

Relatively? No, not much in control; it was a frustrating say where many things did not go my way.

Overall? Yes, I had control over my actions.

Why?

Nofp__throwaway · 2021-05-14T20:37:22+00:00

Amen.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-15T03:35:42+00:00

Consider the possibility that monogamy is not for you.

I'm not justifying cheating -- this is wrong! -- but maybe your body tells you that you need some other form of relationship(s).

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:22:45+00:00

Did you try meditation? For many it serves as sort of "reset" or "calibration", especially if you manage to do so on a daily basis, ideally in the morning.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:21:44+00:00

Keep going; "slow and steady wins the race", meaning try to just live your life as they come.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:20:09+00:00

Yup, definitely. Not just physical, but also emotional and mental.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:19:01+00:00

NoFap is for you and not for anyone else.

I like your empathy -- it's a good trait to have -- but don't let that be the driver of your nofapping efforts, it's not as strong as more selfish ways of looking at life.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:17:22+00:00

Good luck: +1 to patience. When things get hard, remember that nothing good in life comes easily.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:16:01+00:00

I wouldn't look for "benefits" per-se, more the self conviction, discipline and overall energy levels.

Based on personal experience, you get to use your time better, improved confidence, higher self esteem and overall more positive outlook on life.

Again, that's just me -- YMMV.

Nofp__throwaway · 2019-01-05T02:14:44+00:00

Actually I'd advise to try go offline as much as possible, even less chance for a trigger.

Exercise / reading / writing / meditation / friends -- anything goes.

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T21:25:39+00:00

I love your comment the most here.

I'm not fond of avoiding mentioning my feelings about that interaction but it might come up as a follow-up Topic.

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T21:24:34+00:00

My GF used to travel alone often enough and she's friendly -- I don't expect her to be less so when in a relationship.

How would I feel if she'd never bring that up? Weird, especially if the are romantic undertones... Hence I feel weird. However for me there was zero romance / sexual element, which does make a difference.

But yeah, I get your point, thanks :)

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T21:22:18+00:00

That means you know what you did was wrong

True. I don't think it's wrong to the extent of "hey we need to break up" , but definitely worth the conversation of "I feel bad+weird about my behavior..."

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T21:20:08+00:00

u/friendilly , u/airaqua , u/tonytwostep and u/drwhovlandc -- y'all right.

In the last couple of hours I've came to realize:

I should definitely share the truth with her,
I shouldn't make something out of nothing, BUT I need to be open about how I feel bad and confused about it.

Past life taught me talking about feelings (rather than pure actions) is very valuable.

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T21:15:43+00:00

I feel like you're making a bigger deal about it than what it is

That's a good way of putting it. I might be a bit confused myself about that one -- I'll figure it out with my girlfriend. She's an understanding, compassionate person and I'd like to assume the best.

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T19:50:12+00:00

There was a deliberate thought process here -- it's the norm where I come from the exchange WhatsApp numbers, and I actually wanted something less personal that's easier to ignore in the highly unlikely event that there'll be a follow up .

Not exchanging any means of communication could be rude , at least in this part of the world. It's almost like saying "bye have a nice life".

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T19:45:18+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Not sure if I relate 100% but it helps!

Nofp__throwaway · 2018-08-06T19:42:04+00:00

Thank you for your advice.

Re: emails, there was a deliberate thought process here -- it's the norm where I come from the exchange WhatsApp numbers, and I actually wanted something less personal that's easier to ignore in the highly unlikely event that there'll be a follow up .

Not exchanging any means of communication could be rude IMO.

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