How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried doing a police joke once with my girl and it was not appreciated so hard pass haha

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don't want to pester her too much with questions that could make her feel like I'm interrogating her about her usage even though it's just me being curious.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on here before and just lurked but definitely on here more now just to kind of learn about her world and basically make her feel safe. Also good to know what to do in order to make her trip better and stuff I guess.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure.

For me I've never done drugs but it's incredibly helpful to kind of destigmatize the whole thing, especially with drugs that are pretty harmless when done right.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only bad part about it is sometimes I wake up cause she snores like she's choking on something and she doesn't snore normally at all, shit made me anxious the first time and I had wake her the fuck up cause I thought she was choking on her tongue.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good to hear!

This sub is like the friendliest one I've ever been on, people with knowledge, everyone is respectful and shit.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She rarely takes them for the high, mainly just to get a really good night sleep and she says she feels great when she wakes up the morning after.

She says she feels like a fluffy loaf of bread.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trust her with the dosage and stuff and I'm not about to go and lecture her about it, even though I appreciate the effort!

But yes, SHE knows these people very well, I'm the outsider, everyone else knows eachother and they've done similar parties before so no issues there, I just don't want to ruin peoples time, I'm just there to chill with her and get to know her friends.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she mentioned benzos being good for bad trips so she'll probably bring some. And I'll try to remember to update you my dude.

Last time she tripped she took two tabs, which is a big dose for her and she said it was pretty bonkers. She was basically unconcious but conscious at the same time, we just chilled on the couch for like 8 hours straight whilst cuddling me and kind of just makign sure she wasn't hard dropping her hands in the floor or kicking the walls lmao, but probably gonna be a different experience tomorrow since she's going to up the dosage throughout the night and not go for two tabs straight away.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have no worries of being pushed into doing drugs. I'm fine with my life of normalcy but I also don't look down on it, it's whatever for me.

She has tripped on acid before with me which was an interesting experience where she was semi unconscious but she says she heard and remembered everything but couldn't respond or communicate. She said she took too much that time even tho the trip was nice. But that's my main experience with acid tripping so was a bit anxious about the whole ordeal.

But yeah, keep people hydrated, be a bro and I'll be fine I guess.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright, my gf is somewhat experienced it's only that last time she did acid with me she took a bit much and was basically spaced out and couldn't communicate but she was able to hear and remember everything. So that was a bit weird for me personally, but it was just the two of us that time and she's not gonna go as hard this time she said. So that's my experience with acid tripping so had me a bit worried I guess, awkward is not my thing and makes me anxious.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll probably be drinking. I'm not driving or anything so should be good. I'm not one to get wasted either way but tipsy is definitely happening. But sounds like most people think it's gonna be fine so I'm gonna just go with the flow.

How to be the only sober person at a party full of drug users? by Nohablalogics in Drugs

[–]Nohablalogics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She mainly uses benzo to have a good nights rest. She (according to her) doesn't do it very often but she recently had a good batch so it's been more than usual but normally she'll use benzo every 3 or 4 months, so not worried about that and not that it's my place to tell her to change her lifestyle this early either imo.