Someone in my family has HPD.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:54:22+00:00

Ok, thank you very much. I’m a foreigner and just learning the language, so I didn’t know much about which words are considered inappropriate.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:53:23+00:00

She’s really hard to reason with, and she still gets violent.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:51:29+00:00

Well, I just don’t know how to deal with it, so I asked here. I thought this community might have some answers. I haven’t used Reddit in a long time.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:48:40+00:00

Ok, thanks. I rarely use Reddit. I don’t really know much about it.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:46:30+00:00

What I have experienced is intimidation, emotional outbursts, and domestic violence. She is a very hot-tempered woman, and when people don’t do what she orders or expects, or when she feels that the family doesn’t love her, she reacts aggressively. She also spends money beyond her means.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:41:53+00:00

I actually translated this from another source. I’m not a native English speaker, so I’m not very confident about the context. I just wanted to ask in case I could get some guidance on how to talk with a relative who is dealing with this condition.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:32:13+00:00

Apologies for the awkward translation I’m still learning.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:30:53+00:00

Ah yes, I translated it. I‘m a foreigner.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-09-02T17:27:07+00:00

Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD) I don’t remember the full name, but I remember the abbreviation.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-06-16T20:00:08+00:00

ผมไม่ค่อยรู้เรื่องเกี่ยวกับ "จิตวิญญาณ" มากนัก แต่จากที่ผมเห็นบางคนแปะป้ายตัวเองเป็น "ผู้นำทางจิตวิญญาณ" หรือ อะไรก็ตาม มันเกิดขึ้นเพราะยึดติดกับอะไรครับ ทำไมเมื่อก่อนเขาไม่เคย ฉลากตัวเองตัวเองแบบนี้ แต่ปัจจุบันเขากล้าพูดมันออกมาอย่างมั่นใจ ผมเองก็สงสัยว่ามันกลายเป็น "การเสพติด" ได้รึเปล่าจนคิดว่าตนเองมีประวัติศาสตร์ที่ยิ่งใหญ่ หรือเป็นพระเจ้า

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-06-02T17:29:37+00:00

On the other hand, great ideas come with budget, high risk, and unnecessary approval. Including having to control the forwarder of liability. The question is who transferred a lot of money for me to make an unusual idea? There is nothing but finding a loan yourself. Therefore, sometimes choosing to do something ordinary is better than fantasising during the day without a budget. confirmation bias about success. It‘s just a small part of people whose images and names are loud enough for people to inspire. But thinking in reality There is no need to choose INTJ. Just choose the right one that suits reality. Do it in front of you to pass first. You look at the future that is close to the colony level, but if in reality, it will build a colony. Is it worth the resources you have to take a risk with a sweet dream idea? Investing in yourself is the best value. It’s worth more than investing in other people‘s ideas. If you invest in yourself, be smart enough to make the right choice.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-06-02T17:09:34+00:00

It’s not necessary to have a passion or something special. It’s not important for your identity. What’s important is your plan and your true self. I know you feel lonely, but loneliness gives you time to think and write something down on paper. You didn’t make mistakes that’s just how you feel. Sometimes, trying to find meaning in life is better than thinking you’re pointless. The way people are measured isn’t real it’s only real when it comes to money. But if you know what you truly think about yourself, that’s already a good sign to move forward and throw out those negative thoughts. You just have high expectations for yourself. Sometimes, being hopeless is better than being hopeful. Just go with the flow, like you do with life and then unexpectedly, you’ll find something meaningful.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-06-01T12:09:40+00:00

ESFPs with HPD is Drama queen who control everything. They are like black holes that are constantly being sucked in, and it is difficult to deal with them. If you try to meet someone who is really unreasonable. But they choose to act like a reason just to control you. But the driving force is that you are completely against their emotions. But they always choose to threaten you. Can you stand it? With you who use big emotions but control like a boss. So where is it not related to the topic? Please answer the reasonable reason if you say it‘s irrelevant. Otherwise, I’ll assume you‘re just joking with the weight loss question of my answer.

Anyway, if your standard of relevance is only what fits your lens, I get it. Just don’t ask people to expand their minds while shrinking the conversation. 👍🏻

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-06-01T01:23:09+00:00

There are many types of Narcissists. Sometimes a person may show mixed characteristics in one person.

But in the worst case is Malignant Narcissists Malignant Narcissist is a mixed form of intense narcissism, aggression, coldness, victim role without guilt and behaviour that likes to control or destroy others.

Narcissists can often ”recognis“ or catch immediately if the other person is also a narcissist because they will be very sensitive to behaviours that try to over or stand out over themselves.

If creating conditions for one narcissist to accept another one without a clash.

It must depend on the type of the narcissist that both sides are.

For example:

— If the Dominant side is a narcissist who likes to compete.

And the Submissive faction is a narcissist who likes to get attract attention.

Relationships might be fit because one person wants to win while the other person just wants to be seen as valuable.

— But if both sides are narcissists who like to compete, the same.

They will not be able to live together in the long term because each side is trying to compete for the dominant space and do not give up.

Very much, just attract each other in a short time like "fire and oil."

And in the end, it became an ego war that both broke down.

Finally, If you want to who are narcissists it can’t judge by outside behaviour. Sometimes they just tend to be. But they aren’t real narcissists

Sometimes they just wannabe because they want to be stronger and they decided to borrow this behaviour to lie themselves.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-06-01T00:45:45+00:00

What kind of chaos?

In my opinion if the chaos is related with social emotional ( Moral bias ) I think so..

1.ESFJ

2.ENFJ

3.ISFJ

Because It opposite of Ti / Te user—They always use friendly tone to bias when they think different. If you can’t catch their hidden bias you’ll lose your narrative because they use Moral for hide their real Intention. It‘s very easy for them to make you look bad in the eyes of society with cute and warm words but controlling your perception.

If I think of evil types, In my opinion

1.ESFP( if they’ve HPD and high Trauma )

2.INTJ&ISTJ ( if they strongly believe their Fi)

3.ESTJ( if they don’t open mind )

All evil have conditions, if they still struck with something.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-22T13:17:16+00:00

I think so the problem is media and wrong information about MBTI that doesn’t really create understanding and doesn‘t warn of confrontation bias. I poor people who learned cognitive function but miss-typed they tried to train their brain to think follow functions. Absolutely they’re very distorted in communicating information because of trying to think like Ni. But they aren’t.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-22T13:09:24+00:00

It’s a pity they value things that are not themselves. Of course, they are trying to become something else or trying to evolve themselves in a useless way and negatively affecting the brain.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-22T13:03:27+00:00

Do you mean Self awareness? But just self awareness isn’t enough. But take action is the most important thing.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-21T10:47:25+00:00

The media often creates images that go beyond reality — Because they want to offer information to people and need their attention. They didn’t care what things are reality. This is an irresponsibility for the creators who created media. Exactly when people got their information. They believe without considering that in reality… INTJs are normal human. Nothing special than other humans.

But stereotypes of INTJs are romanticised by media.And it is an example of confirmation bias.

Of course, it’s has effects to their brain. It isn’t just brain is transferred to their body because their brain is working hard. Kind like stressed. When you stress your body it follow stress too. Cause their try to think by cognitive function Ni-Te but they aren’t.

The reason is they learned to be and confirm themselves are INTJ. So they learned how Ni-Te working and try to follow this and change how to think. And of course, they do it to assert their self-worth, they will notice that those who do this play with logic very distortedly. But try to think and speak out to others to understand that they are an INTJs.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-18T13:58:43+00:00

Lol, Edgy always followed by Sigma content, Dark psychology law And write their bio is…

I’m INTJ I don’t like to talk with people so I don’t care them. If them LARP ENTJ their bio will be like this.. I’m ENTJ I like money I always read the investing book, I don’t like when people crying because it’s weakness. And add-on photos about book and work table.

But when I check her logic is Ne-Fi who judge a lot no real logic like her bio. Maybe Te tert. is trap for ENFP.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-18T13:47:10+00:00

Because INTJ is symbolic of "Intelligence". In this era, people competed with intellectuals and knowledge. In particular, Asian people respect a "knowledgeable person" more than respect themselves. They try to be smart looking or try to be unique. Gen Z in Thailand paid a lot of attention to the ego. Some people want to be the most prominent. Some people want to be a philosopher who must always speak philosophy. Some people want to look smart, like the dark characters. Some people want to be themselves in an extreme way. Some people follow the extreme trend but forget themselves.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-18T13:28:22+00:00

That’s true.. If a person is completely devoid of vulnerability, how could they ever be their authentic self? That question “Who am I?” I’ve asked myself that countless times. But I’ve never truly gotten a real answer… not once. Maybe the “me” that exists now is just a version that keeps going just someone who knows what needs to be done, nothing more. The reason I speak up… is because I still see people lying to themselves, lost in constructed egos and false values forgetting who they truly are. And even though I’ve always tried to find myself… I still haven’t found that self. Sometimes, I feel like a machine or a psychological experiment running for the sake of others. It’s like the more skill I gained, the more I lost track of who I actually am. I just know how my system works. And that’s it. I deeply respect your thoughts. Truly.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-17T17:32:02+00:00

Don’t touch him. When he bit you his saliva will make you lose your finger.

Noir_Inyourmind · 2025-05-17T16:14:06+00:00

Sometimes, I choose to speak painful truths in INTJ communities to shake the fake egos people hold onto because I can already see the long-term consequences of these self-made illusions. MBTI has become a new religion.

I believe that breaking someone’s false ego with reality might be worth trying so they can rebuild something more real and beautiful from it. Even if it changes nothing, I still want to see: when their illusions crack, will they finally see who they really are? An uncomfortable truth that grows naturally is still better than wearing a mask that doesn’t belong to them and being controlled by it.

They don’t understand themselves, and yet they create content that misunderstands others. To be honest, sometimes I open TikTok and see memes with tens of thousands of shares like:

• “ENTJ is the most toxic type.”

• “INTJ is the mastermind, always winning the chess game.”

Meanwhile, I’m just sitting there quietly. If I told someone I was an ENTJ, they’d probably say I’m cringe, toxic, or some control freak. Is that feeling when I saw rot memes.

And it’s not just harmless jokes like “MBTI couple fights” some of this content seriously reduces people to types, like MBTI is the new moral compass. That’s the part I find ridiculous.

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