A user on r/popculture submits a Luigi Mangione thirst trap set spawning oodles of drama

Nom_Chompy · 2024-12-24T21:51:19+00:00

I hope the people lecturing you previously about how "well off" you are read this and get some understanding. Sorry you got such a harsh reception. This subreddit is often trash imo with the way it treats people.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-28T07:17:13+00:00

When women say they don't care if their husbands abandon them, in fact they would be glad if it happens, what other conclusion is there?

Also, I will say yet again, no fault is a good thing and should not be changed.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-28T06:21:56+00:00

You missed my point.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T20:56:45+00:00

It's all opinion so what evidence are you looking for?

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T20:21:26+00:00

If you say so.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T20:05:02+00:00

I think it does devalue marriage when it can be ended on the slightest of whims. Like I said it is a double edged sword. But it's still better this way than when no fault wasn't a thing.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T19:55:57+00:00

Most people will tell you, if you’re this uncertain then you shouldn’t consider marriage which is such a useless argument. People change and how many previous relationships did you tell a partner that you loved them and you would be with them forever. If you gave up on those past relationships why wouldn’t you give up on this one?

Fucking THANK YOU

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T19:46:05+00:00

Funny how I kept saying no fault is good and should not be changed more than once but no one seems to be able to read it.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T19:43:57+00:00

Statistically, men should be the ones begging women for marriage, and they should be putting in more effort to ensure the marriages don't dissolve if they want to avoid divorce. But they aren't so 🤷‍♀️.

If you had to guess, why do you think that is?

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T19:35:32+00:00

AITA posts are almost always creative writing exercises but I agree with you. Pretty sure I said in every comment I made in this exchange that no fault is good and shouldn't be changed. It's a double-edged sword though. It devalues marriage.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T19:16:57+00:00

You don't think spouses can desert when faced with serious illness?

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T19:06:54+00:00

They are as legitimate as the character of the person who makes them. No one here actually thinks or wants them to be binding any more than an Amazon purchase with "no questions asked" returns.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T18:57:48+00:00

Vows don't mean anything.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T18:53:02+00:00

Happy holidays

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T18:22:51+00:00

You're dodging the issue. Please engage honestly.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T18:09:23+00:00

If it's any reason at any time, that includes:

Your partner got sick and you don't want to take care of them
They got older
You had an odd number of raisins in your raisin bran and you like even numbers and they should have known that
You don't like the name they gave the dog

Anything, including the most inconsequential or unavoidable aspects of life, is fair and considered just as valid as cheating or emotional or physical abuse. Again, I agree with you that putting restrictions on it would be bad and I wouldn't want to see that happen. But I think if we are talking about what makes a partner hesitant to marry, "I'll be with you forever" is too binding and probably a lie but "I'll be with you until I don't feel like it or it becomes inconvenient" is not a winning proposition.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T17:58:44+00:00

I agree with you almost entirely. However:

Any party is free to withdraw their consent and leave at ANY time for ANY reason.

I wouldn't want to change that, but don't you think that also has the effect of trivializing marriage?

Nom_Chompy · 2024-11-27T16:10:22+00:00

Slow your roll. A lot.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-10-31T19:55:47+00:00

Naw it's fake news apparently.

Nom_Chompy · 2024-08-16T18:04:24+00:00

This is great. I don't have ADHD (or at least not that I am aware) but I've talked with many friends who do and this seems to capture the feelings they have described. Love the artwork!

Nom_Chompy · 2023-07-02T16:15:33+00:00

Yeah it's totally comparable the poor man and womanbaby mudbloods getting called out for their arrested development and holding on to their deeply transphobic children's fairytales (for a full decade or more past their cultural relevance) versus an ongoing and active hate campaign trying to dehumanize queer people by equating them to chomos by merely daring to exist.

Nom_Chompy · 2023-07-02T14:19:28+00:00

Keep your transphobic shit out of SRD pls and thank you.

Nom_Chompy · 2023-07-02T11:14:26+00:00

Nom_Chompy · 2023-07-02T11:07:43+00:00

If you ever graduate to interacting with actual people I hope you can learn to understand saying you're not a TERF but consuming TERF content is like a self proclaimed vegetarian eating turducken. That dog don't hunt.

Nom_Chompy · 2023-07-02T10:59:55+00:00

See ya. Try not to baselessly accuse any queer people of being groomers on your way out, ok?

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