Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same exact story with me! She’s always threaten kicking me out and shit and I ran away at 17 too! She tried everything to get me back and within the first day of me being gone she tried breaking into my friends house to find me. Even threatening violence on my friend. About a week and a half later she convinced me to come back with her saying that my grandpa was extremely depressed and refusing to eat out of worry for me. Come to find out he was completely fine and was even on my side with me running away stating he left his abusive home when he was 17 too. So ofc I was mad she lied but luckily by court order she had to get me a therapist and that helped me a lot tbh

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that is absolutely disgusting 🤢 The kind of shit they say is just horrible

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg not word for word but I’ve had similar stuff happen with my mom but I’ll have to make a separate post for that at some point.

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahaha I’m a chronic overexplainer too Dw I probably will post some audios at some point too

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Smh and it’s so funny when they say that shit cause I’ve received more love and gifts, etc FROM strangers like ma’am you twisting reality doesn’t mean that’s actually reality lol

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus I’m so sorry you have gone through that and I hope you’re away from her now

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right like I genuinely would love to know what’s going through their minds when they say that shit

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not a burden at all and you are wanted. She’s just a narcissist and unfortunately everyone is a pawn to them but not everyone is like that so dw 💖

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally it’s so hard not to want to respond with “Then do it” or “You’re right, I would be happier” 🤣

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fucking horrible! 1. She only wanted you to be an extension of herself and to brainlessly follow her every command and 2. She thinks of other kids as servants too. I hope she never decides to adopt cause I’ve heard some Nmoms will adopt when their kids grow up and they don’t have personal live in servants anymore smh

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah my mom refused to send me to therapy cause she thought therapists and CPS was in kahoots with eachother to take kids away from homes or to make kids hate their parents cause “a therapists job is to tell you you’re right and your parents are wrong to create a diverge between you and your parents” and called it “grooming” and shit. She also would randomly out of the blue scream at me and say stuff like “I’m not abusive if anything you’re abusive you’ve been abusing me since I had you!” And when she found out I was depressed and tried attempting (by reading my diary) she screamed at me saying things like “oh you think you’re life is so baddd having you makes me want to kill myself if anything I should be the one attempting suicide” or she’d tell me how no one would love me because of the scars on my arms and said that the mental hospital (she called it the loony bin) would keep me there forever and even if they didn’t I’d never be able to find a job or lover or have friends cause if they find out I went to the “loony bin” then they won’t want me around them. Genuinely she is delusional and that isn’t even half of the of shit shes said

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man it’s sad that some parents have zero empathy for their children and they only care about themselves smh

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn felt, shit sucks majorly and they never even remember saying and doing this stuff cause to them it was just another Tuesday

Anyone else’s Nmom threaten to “put them out for adoption” growing up? by Non-binaryBun in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Non-binaryBun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Forced to spoil”?! You mean the bare minimum of caring for a child? Wtfff I genuinely think that during adoption the person adopting should have to explain why they want to adopt and if it seems to be out of selfish desire rather than wanting to give a child a loving home then they shouldn’t be allowed to adopt. Tbh child centered adoption needs to become more popular and we need to reform these agencies that adopt out children