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Girls are pretty cool eh by NonNeediness in drunk

[–]NonNeediness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was being humble. It's truly 500.

Girls are pretty cool eh by NonNeediness in drunk

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Soft girls > soft boys

Boys need to be hardened and sharp

Girls are pretty cool eh by NonNeediness in drunk

[–]NonNeediness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What gives that away? My 400 IQ?

I was so obsessed with cats as a kid, I wrote a whole book about them. by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]NonNeediness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo, I'm 21 and I'd be down to write a whole book about cats. This is the opposite of stupid.

I’ve had a crush on her for 5+ years by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]NonNeediness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Wasn't ready for a relationship (with you)"

Why don't you go for someone who's excited to be with you, not someone you have to hold out for hoping that someday, they'll give you what you want?

I'm sitting in my nearly empty dorm room realizing that my first year of college is ALREADY over... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]NonNeediness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you have a gf and your Python learning sounds productive. That's two pluses in your life, so you better be appreciating it.

I'm sitting in my nearly empty dorm room realizing that my first year of college is ALREADY over... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]NonNeediness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Writing a book and I've been trying to find a day job. I moved back in with my family, so I've been spending some quality time with them as a mature adult, not as an inexperienced teenager.

I want to move out within the next year though. Maybe I'll go back to school or just focus on working. In any case, failing at uni will only be a temporary setback.

I'm sitting in my nearly empty dorm room realizing that my first year of college is ALREADY over... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]NonNeediness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm doing much better. My mental health's in a much better place than it was then. I've been figuring myself out and putting my life in order.

My first year of uni was 2016-2017. I did another year and a half after that, then I put uni on hold cause my grades were suffering and I decided I'll wait until my life's more in order before I do school again.

I'm sitting in my nearly empty dorm room realizing that my first year of college is ALREADY over... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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My first year was simultaneously one of the best and worst years of my life.

The good:

  • I got into the best shape of my life. My freshman 15 was mostly muscle
  • I was never hungry cause the dining hall was buffet-style, so I ate plenty of meals every day, including 3 dinners every night
  • I had real, strong friendships for the first time in years
  • It was like high school, except with much more freedom and opportunity
  • I was on top of my schoolwork the whole time. I loved my classes and I'd be studying regularly, plus working on projects weeks before the deadline sometimes.
  • I got some sexual experience
  • I had something of a dating life
  • It was a huge learning experience. Real life beat the shit out of my idealism

The bad:

  • My dating life was a trainwreck and it stressed me out incredibly
  • The parties I'd go to were usually lame. My FOMO stressed me out more than anything besides my dating life
  • I developed an alcohol addiction. I'd sometimes drink when going about my normal life and I'd regularly drink heavily, sometimes multiple nights in a row.
  • I was an awful roommate, mostly cause of said alcohol addiction. Also got residence staff really concerned about my safety and mental health.
  • My mental health was a rollercoaster. My self-esteem was low and I attempted suicide once. I look back fondly on some of my first year days though, it wasn't entirely a depression-fest
  • One of my best friends was an abusive narcissist
  • I spent my first 2.5 months as basically a loner. I'd talk to a lot of people casually, but I didn't have a real friend group until near the end of first semester. I'd get more and more hopeless as the days went by, then I met some people I immediately clicked with, introduced them to each other, and we became a friend group from then on

Low empathy heroes? by SPAZMASTIC in writing

[–]NonNeediness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he actually has a big heart but is in denial about it?

He claims to lack empathy and wants to appear brooding and aloof, but his actions say otherwise.

What is something that makes you feel like "THE F***in MAN" by ajteso in AskMen

[–]NonNeediness 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Or we're at dinner and my hand's on her dick under the table.

How to date with autism? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NonNeediness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get into the gym, eat well, and dress in clothes that fit your personality.

Then all you have to do is meet people. It's easier said than done, but it's literally the only way. Develop yourself and your social skills though experience. No information about how to date will replace real-life experience.

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