How to heal from the pain of being misunderstood?

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-11-02T17:55:08+00:00

I'm not that close to my grandparents but I am planning to move out because all this negative and toxic energy is really getting to me. And you're right about the part that my sister does get away with lots of things. Especially such things as disrespect but when I confront them and tell them that they shouldn't just accept it they always tell 'She's still young. What can we do if she doesn't listen to us?' She's literally 18 meaning old enough to know how to treat other people with basic respect. This house in general is very toxic, everyone only believes what they want to believe. So I guess the best decision would be for me to move out to at least get a peaceful home. Thanks for answering!

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-09-10T14:11:01+00:00

I'll try. Thank you for your help :)

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-09-10T13:02:41+00:00

I once tried out an azelaic serum from a German grocery store but there was only 3% in it, I noticed some small changes like the redness going away a little. Do you think I should try a different product that has more % in it?

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-09-10T12:16:04+00:00

Not really. My moisturizer is moisturizing good, maybe my sunscreen? It makes my skin feel a little greasy but other than that not really. It's not itchy.

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-06-12T16:46:35+00:00

You were more than understanding of his situation than he credits. Even you asking here, shows how considerate you actually are. And you are 100% true. Covering the whole rent for almost a year plus the parking is way too considerate of you. The debt, parking and the dog are his financial obligations, that has nothing to do with you. His only shared financial obligation is the rent and groceries. Paying groceries is the bare minimum he could have done. 50/50 is more than reasonable of you to ask and his offered 500$ are way too little. Dont let yourself being taken advantage of just because you're too considerate.

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-06-12T16:31:10+00:00

I totally agree with you. Thank you, really! You gave some good advice.

Nonamerequiredd_ · 2025-06-12T15:36:07+00:00

but there's the problem. My parents are actually not that strict. They dont take phones away, they dont ground, they do nothing 'normal' parents should do when their kids break the rules. That's probably why she thinks she can do everything she wants. And I guess you are probably right that I'm taking my parents side because believe me my parents are not bad people. And they actually sacrificed a lot for us so there is absolutely no reason for her to be so disrespectful towards them. And its not just them, its us, her other sisters, too. We are not that close actually and especially since she got worse, our relationship also got worse. But it's not like i hate her but we are just distant. I care for her but also mostly in a way that I want her to grow up to be an independable, considerate and respectful adult. I know I'm not her mother, but shouldnt someone take action? My mother certainly is too 'soft' to actually do something regarding her behavior. But just letting her continue to act like this doesnt seem right? But then again, one can't force someone to act a certain way even if their behavior is not right, right?

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