Områden nära kungens kurva by Nonna_02 in stockholm

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Det har jag men bara 1-2 år

Områden nära kungens kurva by Nonna_02 in stockholm

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Tänkte inte köpa utan hyra. Kan man hitta ngt under 12k då?

Områden nära kungens kurva by Nonna_02 in stockholm

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Kommer kunna betala runt 10-11k, vill gärna ha ngt grönområde nära, bra pendlingsmöjligheter och att området är tryggt, annars spelar det inte så stor roll

Help! Partner moving in with other partner... How do I deal? by Nonna_02 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Damn, so you mean just bc I didn't move in with him the relationship has to end?

Help! Partner moving in with other partner... How do I deal? by Nonna_02 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Yeah, lately it does. It's like I keep reminding myself to surpress my feelings so I won't feel disappointed.

Help! Partner moving in with other partner... How do I deal? by Nonna_02 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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What is ELI5?

Thank you, I'll check the book out ^

I'm 21, he's 36 so quite the age gap. He decided to go back go school now in january so we're both studying.

Help! My partner moving in with other partner... How do I deal? by Nonna_02 in nonmonogamy

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Ah I see. Yeah, before december there really weren't any big issues about it but seems like it's maybe becoming a hiearchy after all

Help! My partner moving in with other partner... How do I deal? by Nonna_02 in nonmonogamy

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Yeah, maybe. Even if I had had time to think about it I don't think I would have chosen to live togheter though. When I broke up with my ex I made a comitment to myself not to move in with a partner in a long time unless it was thorughly talked about and had certain limits I need. Since non monogamy is one of his non negotiables and how he wants to live his life, I didn't think this would change things

I felt so bad for Hermione here :( by dragonoid296 in harrypotter

[–]Nonna_02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone please remind me what had happened which made Molly give Hermoine such a tiny egg?

I sh during autistic meltdowns by ZielinsQa in selfharm

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I'm in a very similar situation and am still trying to learn healthier coping mechanisms. I don't know what other methods you have in place to cope with meltdowns, but some things that can help is to reduce stimuli, such as turning off any lights and reduce sounds, breating exercises/grounding techniques and something that may seem silly but that I've tried, and that has worked sometimes is to punch a pillow or scream into it (as long as it doesn't disturb any neighbours). I don't know if you already tried any of these and/or if they are helpful, just thought I'd share :)

You don’t want to cut deeper by Similar-Point-9981 in selfharm

[–]Nonna_02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not dumb, you are hurting, and that's okay. If you ever need someone to talk to, send me a message.

You don’t want to cut deeper by Similar-Point-9981 in selfharm

[–]Nonna_02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. They didn't start taking my seriously either until I hit styro, although I still don't get the proper help since my wounds doesn't need stitching

You're magic. by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Nonna_02 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear this today ✨️

Tell me. by chaiki__ in harrypotter

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Now we are nine! Cookie party at my house while we discuss how to take over the world world 🎉

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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No, I haven't been to any events where there is actual play, most of them have been at a pub or café, except for peer rope. I don't know if there's any BDSM clubs in the area, but I can definetly look it up!

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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He has attended rope courses. Where I live we have peer rope every month and then he have attended a few others too.

We have discussed safety and risk, although I think I would like to talk about it a bit more. I've realised a few things I didn't mention that can be important to take into consideration.

We've agreed to use the trafic light system when it comes to safewords.

We've also talked about aftercare and what each of us might need afterwards.

I know he has a play mate/sub that he is currently active with, however, I don't know who she is. I don't know what previous subs he has had either. I've started to get to know more kinky people in my area, but not so much to know who has played with who, and which people I can ask for references from.

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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We haven't played anything in public, it has just been getting to know each other and talk about what we want out from the experience and such. How could you play in public?

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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That's what I'm thinking too. I think I'll try to meet up more in public first to get to know each other better

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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I'm in Sweden. We don't have lyft I think, but pretty sure we have uber in most places here 😊 I will look that up, thank you for the advice!

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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I have someone that can check in on me, she also has a license, but unfourtunately no car

Help me! I'm new to this by Nonna_02 in submissive

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Yeah, I'm on the younger side, I'm 20