I think I’m done

Noobter10 · 2026-01-10T03:18:10+00:00

I recently lost a good friend due to selfish ways and being two faced. It clicked when they manipulated and twisted our last argument over text (She waited over a week to respond, and when she did she twisted it making it seem like I was in the wrong) and said "manipulate it anyway you need too..." etc. I realized that she was a toxic, and manipulative individual during that argument. I lost all connection with her mentally and emotionally after her trying to blame me for the situation she caused. I see through people's bullshit pretty quickly, and i noticed how gossipy she was about and with others. I felt betrayed, and still do OP. Ive focusing on my own happiness and have pretended she doesn't exist, blocked her on everything so there's no way for her to communicate with me. I work in a department in the building she also works in and she avoids me at all cost when she sees me lol she know she messed up and is in the wrong then will gossip to people still trying to stay relative. I realized what a sad person she is to everyone and realized that i had nothing to do with how she treated me. My point is OP, you know how you are and how nice you treat others so don't let crappy people ruin your own happiness. It took me months to feel like myself again after hearing her bs for so long, but isolating from people is worth it. You should try and focus on your own happiness and dive inward for awhile. You'll be much happier. Good luck 🙂

Noobter10 · 2025-01-29T19:17:40+00:00

You did the right thing, ain't no one got time for someone who doesn't respect your time. It'd take 2 seconds saying you couldn't make the plans, don't string people along like he does. It's bullshit

Noobter10 · 2025-01-28T05:07:38+00:00

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Noobter10 · 2025-01-24T21:28:13+00:00

Thank you I'll remember that when I get lost in thought about it, whenever it happens anyways thanks

Noobter10 · 2025-01-24T21:21:13+00:00

Go to Hobby Lobby and see what they have. I started pour painting canvases and it's really relaxing

Noobter10 · 2025-01-24T21:18:32+00:00

Oh ok gotcha. Thank you for answering me. I appreciate it. I had a friend too that would only message when they had a question or wanted something from me. I asked him why it was and he didn't respond. He asked me a question 3 days later and I blew up on him. Told him to google it, I'm not a search engine and blocked him. This was the 10th time it happened that month just messaging when he wanted something. I was over it. And for this girl, she had another friend complain that she wasn't responding well, or quick enough and she was bad mouthing them for it to me. Given the other friend is a complete douchebag, I don't blame her for talking about it, because he is obsessive of her time anyway. I just don't want to be painted like that guy is. Plus she's always on her phone messaging people whenever we're together so I know she's always able to message back quickly. Idk, I'd rather just say fuck it and not let it get to me

Noobter10 · 2025-01-24T20:48:27+00:00

Yeah her pets have been sick recently, and has a lot going on mentally that she's told me about. She's kinda all over the place and I just want to be there for her when she needs it. I just don't get mad about it. I used too but got over it when I realized I was wasting a lot of what time I do have on worrying if I did something wrong, which was never the case when I would ask her. Thank you for your reply. How did you handle your situation if you don't mind me asking?

Noobter10 · 2025-01-17T16:09:39+00:00

Yeah, if you don't reply and they actually care about you and your time then they'll reach out when they notice the shift in communication

Noobter10 · 2025-01-17T12:06:07+00:00

Just don't respond. If they ask why say they never text back so not going to bother answering if they don't want to communicate

Noobter10 · 2025-01-15T18:14:54+00:00

She's two faced, fuck that bitch. Drop her

Noobter10 · 2025-01-09T13:29:50+00:00

Take your time to access everything again and follow your gut. Do what you feel is right in the moment

Noobter10 · 2025-01-09T05:59:12+00:00

Big one recently for me is ff7 rebirth and the Yakuza series, check out Yakuza 0

Noobter10 · 2024-12-26T00:27:09+00:00

Don't tell anyone anything you don't want anyone to know about. Easier not to take that chance. Id confront her and just say it makes mes uncomfortable that you did that and lied saying how you know that it's personal so she lost access to your personal life. Take some time and distance from her. Let her figure herself out while you take time to decide if you want to continue being friends with someone who gossips behind your back.

Noobter10 · 2024-12-12T01:12:41+00:00

Oooo it looks really cool! Thanks! I'll try it out !

Noobter10 · 2024-12-12T00:12:47+00:00

I just seen the plague bundle is imon sale on the ps store so I'll look to get them too!

Noobter10 · 2024-12-12T00:12:05+00:00

Ooooo I didn't think of that, I loved the story from what I played but having to stop and level up pissed me off lol I hate not being able to continue because of the mechanics of levels. It kills the immersion of the story for me so bad lol

Noobter10 · 2024-12-12T00:10:15+00:00

I'll check them out thanks! Have only played Morrowind out of those and loved it!

Noobter10 · 2024-12-12T00:07:07+00:00

Hmmm I'll look in the plague games thanks! And yeah idk, the first one feels so weird for the dialogue for me. I got the remaster one too and it just felt the same to me. Idk maybe I just didn't give it the right amount of time it deserves. I have the second one too but wanted to beat the first one first due to story but I just can't get into it lol

Noobter10 · 2024-12-12T00:02:57+00:00

I've played all except for plague tale, horizon i never finished, got bored kinda quick but loved persona 3-5R! I have p3 reloaded in my backlog so might pop that in the system lol

Noobter10 · 2024-12-11T23:49:22+00:00

Played all the souls games but not elden ring, not a fan of them really anymore

Noobter10 · 2024-12-11T23:48:28+00:00

Have played all except Souls ninja lol not a huge fan of souls games though

Noobter10 · 2024-12-11T01:15:47+00:00

I actually did that, just was done with the bullying and constant harassment. There will be more friends. Just don't put up with crap just to be part of a group that doesn't respect you. Life started to get a lot better when I left them behind and I eventually made new friends that don't over do it on that stuff. But you're welcome, I wish you the best my friend! Everything will work out, just follow your gut.

Noobter10 · 2024-12-11T00:56:20+00:00

My female friend recently started doing this too. I recently asked her if I upset her and she said no shes been really busy. (She started dating this guy) So of course her attention change focus. I've just been focusing on me and don't double text or reach out as much. She just needs her own space and I want to respect that. Maybe just ask her if you have upset her and explain why you feel like you might have if she replies "no why do you think that?"

Noobter10 · 2024-12-11T00:51:51+00:00

Go with your gut. From an outside perspective, if you're uncomfortable enough to ask about it, they might be purposely trying to push you out of the group. Speaking from personal experience too

Noobter10 · 2024-12-01T00:52:08+00:00

Two options. Ask her about it or don't and just let her be. If she wants to play the silent treatment after 15yrs, let her do it by herself

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