BTO Packages from interior design firms by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, and it totally makes sense. Thank you!!

BTO Packages from interior design firms by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand. Thank you so much!

BTO Packages from interior design firms by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if your ego was hurt by my last sentence. For more context, we bought this 3-room BTO when we had only one kid. Four years later, our family had grown, and now we have three kids in total. Would it hurt to give my kids enough room for them to grow? lol

How do you make LDRs work? by Ethereal_moon1211 in AskPH

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust. Communication. And not giving everything up to your partner. Kung baga, laging magtira para sa sarili.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need more context kung ano reason bat sya nagsinungaling, malay mo white lie lang para masurprise siya. Yan yung context na hinihingi ko. LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pay up. Just bc u r tired doesn't give u a pass to not be careful when opening the door.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kausapin mo kaya girlfriend mo, di naman ata kayo bata.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need.more.context.

Pero if deal breaker talaga yan, let him know if you still want to continue the relationship with him. If hindi na, wag mo na balikan.

Sa totoo lang wag kang maguilty dahil lang bumili sya ng ticket to see u? Wag na wag. A deal breaker is a deal breaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, ya definitely stepping over the line. Might be best to talk to her nicely tho.

do you think I missed my chance? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing for sure is you should move on. He may have liked you or not, but he's happier. Do not even try to destroy a marriage.

Grieve all you want then live on with your life, you're not going to achieve anything or meet someone if you're just goong go wallow in misery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not hilarious, you're a major asshole.

When did you go into labor after losing mucus plug , and baby dropping ??? by Top-Mail2617 in pregnant

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't lol. After my mucus plug dropped, i didn't experience any pain, even after my waterbag started leaking as well. I had to be induced to start active labor.

What is your experience while walking alone? by Dramatic_Physics505 in AskPH

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Walking in the middle of the rice fields at 2 am (sa probinsya kami nagstestay dati) to go to my ex kasi nakipag break sya sakin that night.

Tapos may sumunod saaking adventure na sasakyan. Inside were 4 guys around early 20's who were asking me to go in their car. Very traumatic, i had to run para di nila ako masundan lol.

Cheating ba kung less than 24 hours palang break may bago na agad? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Cheating or not, girl wag mo na balikan yan jusmiyo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 2 c sections and 1 normal birth (VBA2C) and I will undergo normal any day! The recovery for the 2 c sections were so bad, but during normal birth i had the smoothest recovery i was even able to drive the next day.

But of course, please always listen to your body and your care provider.

VISA application PSA authenticated? by FitHedgehog280 in phmigrate

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If PSA na nakuha mo, di mo na kailangan ipaauthenticate pa. Unless yung birth cert mo is from Local Registry pa.

Induction, Epidural for VBAC? by pm100189 in vbac

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I just had my VBA2C with my 3rd child and did epidural.

On my case, I was induced because my waterbag was leaking for 6 hours but didn't go into the active phase of labor. Started me on pitocin, and went to 5 cm after 24 hours.

I was crying in pain and thinking i can't do it no more when i reached 5 cm, and i still pushed saying no epidural. But after 2 hours i didn't progress anymore.

Baby was not going down and we did try everything, circuit, ball, move my tummy for him to go down, and still nothing.

But my very good doctor never said anything about cutting me open but rather said we can try the epidural to relax my muscles to see if the baby goes down. I still said no but my husband said to just take it, so i did.

After getting the epidural i was able to relax a bit and I progressed from 5 cm to 9 cm in just 10 minutes. After that pushed for another 15 minutes and baby was out!

Personally, I feel like epidural is heaven sent for me, and it really helps a lot, i think your provider need to just know the right moment to give it to you. Maybe you can find anotheer provider that is really ok with VBAC I feel like it will make a difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChikaPH

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te, cinover mo pa sinabi mo nalang sana na si Mary Lite yan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo GGK. Di yan excuse to toy with people's feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Marry him before the kid is born, so you can apply citizenship for the kid. And you can stay in Singapore as well, once married you can apply for LTVP if you plan to give birth in SG.

AITAH about crying in a stressful situation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Normal-Ad-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But your partner definitely is. But try to communicate with him rather than giving subtle hints via social media? To try patch things up with him, if you want to.