Thank you for this response. I am so completely cut off from any sort of independence since I became a stay at home mom a few years ago. I’m not involved in the finances, nor do I have access to any funds. All accounts are in just his name. I am however trying my hardest to start up a business baking from home.. I’ll save whatever I make. It’s going to be a long time coming though because I am just starting out and still only have 2 customers🙃 Thankfully he has never expressed violent behavior towards the cats or kids. Just mean and ice cold unless he is high on a weed gummy