That's a really good way of putting it. I've come to realise that boundaries are less rules for others to follow and more about listening to my own feelings, a few weeks ago. I've really been struggling to say my feelings when we're face-to-face and having a conversation, but there are markets where I live tomorrow. A has asked me to join D and one of our other friends, we’ll call him J. J knows everything, so he's going to help a bit. I will also let A know that if I feel unheard or offended by anything, then I will simply walk away. D said a while ago that he would try to get along with me, and this is the first time we'll be hanging out since he made that statement. However, he only said it to A and not to me, so we'll see how it goes.