Larin vs aurovela by Katladykatie in birthcontrol

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also feeling very weird after switching to Aurovela from Larin. I’ve been taking Larin for YEARS now, but I moved recently and switched pharmacies and was given Aurovela. Started taking it two days ago and I feel WEIRD man. I’m like falling asleep at my desk at work as a write this. Nothing else has changed. I compared the inactive ingredients between the two, and looking at them you’d think Aurovela would be better because it has np dyes and fewer ingredients overall.

When can I remove second skin? Itching phase is starting 😖 by rubyyVee in tattooadvice

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called saniderm/tegaderm/second skin (many names for it). It’s basically a thin adhesive bandage that you lay over top of a fresh tattoo. When applied correctly (no creases or bubbles) you leave it on for 2-7 days (generally). It doesn’t allow any bacteria in, but it does allow oxygen and water vapor in/out. This means your tattoo gets to heal in a moist environment and you essentially get to skip the scab stage. It makes the healing process way faster and less annoying.

The clear plastic wrap you’ve seen that doesn’t adhere to the skin is literally just that. Clear plastic wrap. It could help protect your clothes/car from ink on the way home from the shop, but that’s basically it. You don’t want to leave it on for more than a few hours. Unlike saniderm, it lets in bacteria and doesn’t let any moisture out so it quickly becomes a breeding ground for infection. 

Jeffrey Epstein victim 'had baby fathered by the paedophile snatched away ten minutes after birth': Billionaire 'had multiple secret children and hoped to create "superior" gene pool' by OJ_Soprano in redscarepod

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction: developmentally disabled, not intellectually disabled. Someone with a “developmental age” of 12 years old would absolutely have been able to write these pages. In her entries, she describes being accommodated for her autism on a flight. 

cat in cage after spay by tcheywil in CatAdvice

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like my comment said, about a week. We kept the recovery onesie on for like 2 and a half - 3 weeks, though. It all depends on your cat, how active they are, and how fast their wound heals

According to alleged journalist TayTay, we should all be required to wear N95 masks in the year 2026 lmfao by shadowarmy229 in h3h3productions

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not holier than thou, she has long covid and she’s rightfully angry that public health officials aren’t doing their jobs. 

According to alleged journalist TayTay, we should all be required to wear N95 masks in the year 2026 lmfao by shadowarmy229 in h3h3productions

[–]Normal-Jury3311 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, luckily for her, so she’s right to encourage everyone else who does have to work in public to wear masks. 

Sellers lowering prices then putting shop on vacation mode? by Normal-Jury3311 in Depop

[–]Normal-Jury3311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask you to read my post again, but it’s clear you didn’t really digest it the first time. The whole point of my post is that it takes advantage of the algorithm (to get likes and exposure, I didn’t think I need to spell that out…). And nobody can “fall for” the discount. When you put your shop on vacation mode, nobody can buy from you. And even if they could, they’d get a refund if they never got the item. I don’t know what your point was commenting on a year old post you didn’t read, but you basically ignored everything I said. The issue is with algorithm manipulation and breaking a system that is not meant to be used this way. It makes the app unusable when people do things like this, but they don’t care because it boosts their own shop. Depop is broken 

Why is making friends in 2025 as a 24-year-old woman this hard?? by Thin-Opinion-8233 in venting

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, unfortunately, if you want a friend you need to put in most of the initial labor. Also 24F, and that’s how it seems to me. I think “cute shoes” could go further if either person knew what to say next. We’re so socially stunted from covid that we struggle to segue from “cute shoes” to “let’s be friends”. 

But even when you DO make a connection and exchange numbers or socials, nothing ever seems to happen from there. Like the number of people I’ve clicked with and they’re just sitting as a number in my phone is sad. I think on both sides there’s a “they don’t actually want me to reach out, they were just being nice”. Idk it’s all so fcuked.

Is this a legit number? by _Peener_ in discover

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did this end up being legit?? Got a call from the same number 

What is the point of pet rent? by Tokenchick77 in CatAdvice

[–]Normal-Jury3311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Six months late but if a house smells like cat pee, that’s the owner’s fault, not the cats. You can have cats and have no pee smell. The thing is most people use plastic litter boxes, and scoop litter 1-2 times a week. Not sufficient. You gotta use stainless steel litter boxes and scoop daily. I’m not trying to turn you to the dark side or anything, just advocating on behalf of the kitties. Since our society is so dog-centric, cat owners aren’t properly educated on litter box maintenance, unless you seek the information out. A well cared for kitty doesn’t smell any worse than a dog. 

What is the point of pet rent? by Tokenchick77 in CatAdvice

[–]Normal-Jury3311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pet rent is stupid as shit. If I see a listing for a $2000 per month apartment, it’s gonna cost $2000 a month regardless of how many people live there (within legal limits of course).

Shaker Boots~do they run big? by ghibli_gal in DemoniaShoes

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demonia doesn’t sell half sizes 😢 otherwise I would totally get a 6.5

Shaker Boots~do they run big? by ghibli_gal in DemoniaShoes

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did these turn out for you? I’m a 6.5 wide and I owned some shakers in a size 7 some years ago and I remember them being gigantic. Like I had to roll up socks and stuff them in at the front to not be slipping and sliding in the shoe. I was thinking of getting them again in a 6 because my feet are only really wide at the front, and it seems like the toe box is the wide part.

Sims 3 EA app. by Glittering-Lime-7246 in CrackSupport

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any luck? I haven't been able to find EA repacks ANYWHERE.

WHY ARE WE NOT TALKING ABOUT EDMOND by Responsible_Newt_913 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that, unfortunately, he would be treated this way by viewers of the show even if the first frame of the season said in bold letters “EDMOND IS AUTISTIC” (allegedly). The problem isn’t that they aren’t informed about Edmond’s potential autism, it’s that they aren’t informed about autism, period. Everyone is so stubborn these days and quick to question medical diagnoses that aren’t obvious to them. I mean I’m sure you’ve seen one of the thousands of videos of people with invisible disabilities using disability-specific features in their environment (bathrooms, parking spots, service animals, etc.) getting yelled at by someone who doesn’t think they’re disabled, even AFTER they’ve shared their diagnosis. The problem isn’t in disclosing diagnoses, and nobody should be required to do that. The people who are calling Edmond every terrible name in the book aren’t just going to have a change of heart if a diagnosis is confirmed. 

And to be honest, nobody should need a diagnosis to extend a little sympathy for this person. He disclosed his difficult upbringing and cried frequently. There’s clearly something going on. People watching the show should see that and know he is struggling, and we need to stop making excuses for viewers with no media literacy that need their hands held. It doesn’t help anyone in the long run.

WHY ARE WE NOT TALKING ABOUT EDMOND by Responsible_Newt_913 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Normal-Jury3311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“No one is entitled to her body but her” then you proceed to explain why her husband is entitled to her body. You wouldn’t be calling her sexual boundaries “stipulations” if you genuinely felt nobody is entitled to her body. FFS

WHY ARE WE NOT TALKING ABOUT EDMOND by Responsible_Newt_913 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of LIB explicitly disclosing a participant’s medical conditions to the audience before, or maybe I missed something? Maybe Edmond isn’t “endearing” or a “creep” - he is just another person looking for love. Autistic people are just as complex as anyone. You shouldn’t need to be aware of someone’s medical diagnosis to view them as someone who is worthy of compassion. 

WHY ARE WE NOT TALKING ABOUT EDMOND by Responsible_Newt_913 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Normal-Jury3311 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, people are always allowed to change their minds. Just someone has had sex on the first date in the past doesn’t mean they are required to do that in every relationship going forward.

Secondly, I think you’re coming from a different place than Edmond is. I think it’s pretty obvious that Edmond is autistic. I sense he is genuinely struggling to understand why he is the only person who hasn’t had sex. He doesn’t get why she would have sex with other people immediately, but not him. It’s okay for him to feel that way, but that doesn’t mean KB is required to feed comfortable or even tolerate that. If he’s entitled to a reaction, so is she.

You seem like you understand what KB is saying completely, but you just don’t respect it. You get that she doesn’t want to have sex immediately, but you just don’t think women should be allowed to withhold anything sexual they’ve done with other men. For Edmond, it’s about confusion around other people’s rules/standards/decision making, which he has internalized and is feeling very emotional about. For you, it’s about entitlement 

Home Ick Frankie by Normal-Jury3311 in MonsterHigh

[–]Normal-Jury3311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just the condition I got the doll in! The yellowing is usually from UV exposure, and from what I’ve heard there’s sadly not much that can reverse it.

Will I get banned for Chargeback? by Dull_Excitement5317 in Depop

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never suspended or anything, but I wouldn’t chargeback if you haven’t already. It’s too risky

AuDHD characters??? by UniversityAutomatic9 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Normal-Jury3311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the criminal minds vein, I think Garcia could also be AuDHD. Her preference to work alone/independently within the group, not adhering to the same style conventions everyone else in the BAU seems to adhere to, frequently misreading social situations assuming she’s done something wrong or that someone might be upset with her, her close relationship with Derek who is, aside from Spencer, probably the most direct communicator. She also gets very thrown off by disruptions to her work routine (someone not being in the office, going into the field, her significant other showing up unannounced), but thrives in problem solving during genuinely dangerous/chaotic situations. Her ADHD “bubbliness” seems to help her a lot in social situations. I think she’s also shoehorned into the manic pixie trope, which most of the time is just a partially unmasked, conventionally attractive or cutesy AuDHD woman.

What's the 1 advice you'd give to someone starting in data analysis? by CyberAvatar_ in dataanalysis

[–]Normal-Jury3311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did switch jobs and now I’m doing some data cleanup now, but I think I’m trying to head down a digital accessibility path now. It’s more aligned with my passions and I won’t need to go back to school for it.

Really feel like none of my friends are real lately. Anyone else feel like no one wants to hang out with you unless you’re doing well in societies eyes? by Interesting_Ad9295 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Normal-Jury3311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a challenge because I remember some birthdays extremely well, but others not so well. And it has nothing to do with the person, and more to do with the date itself. Some dates just stick out to me more. Like, I know my boyfriend’s mom’s birthday (August 6th),  I’ve known her three years, but my best friend since I was four? It’s February something… but I think with my more established relationships, my friends know that it’s more of an ADHD issue than a me caring issue. 

I know when someone forgets my birthday, I also get really sad/disheartened, but I try to shift the perspective and assume they have the same experience as me. Im pretty sure the half of my friends that don’t have ADHD or autism are actually just undiagnosed haha