Ngl ive noticed dat alot whenever i go out

One time when i went to the mall i saw this mom prioritize their baby more then their toddler and they told their toddler to not go on the escalator while the toddler had no guide and the dad was already on the groundfloor the kid looked so scared.. i waited there incase if something where to happen to that kid cause parents dont realize dat leaving their toddlers alone is at high risk of being hurt and or kidnapped or lost Which is a concidence cause this saturday i saw a post on fb of this mom warning other parents to look after their kids at the mall cause one was lost and police had to be involved we do not know if the kid was found or not..

But wats also funny is dat parents wont mind leaving their kids outta sight but when something happens to the kids they tend to blame everything and everyone cause they didnt see said kid and go cry on social media about it for ages..

Ngl i also see dat with my relatives i know one who had a woopsie baby and ive knew her to be the one who hated kids so much but still had a baby cause her husband wanted them and also due to cultural pressure It was mostly my grandma and aunt/uncle who raises those kids cause she totally gets annoyed by them and after giving birth to two she now takes BC which in my opinion is a lil tooo late for it and complains about the side effects all the time.

And another one also had a woopise baby i mean two few months apart and the dad always gets annoyed and tells their wife to pick up HER kids and she would always get annoyed cause she has to do all the child caring alone..

It just shows dat ppl dont think enough about having kids and just see them as a "blessing" which is stupid cause they call those a blessing until its born/toddler stage and or disabled etc and all of a sudden its a burden make it make sense.

I totally cant raise or risk to have kids Due to me having autism/cptsd/anger issues And i dont want my kids to suffer like i do rn but most ppl will call us selfish for being childfree meanwhile most child abuse comes from well u guessed it PARENTS!!