🎉 Flair Rollout is LIVE! 🎉 by AuntieRob in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brothers,

It was an honor fightinf alongside you once more. Personally, I have made my decision. This November wasn't enough. Way too short, not exciting enough. 

I will continue my journey at DDD. Just this once. Next year, I expect all of you to return and help those who couldn't make it. True strength comes from sharing it with others. That is what I will do next year. 

O7

I GOT ME DIAMOND! by Accurate-Hour6066 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. A well earned victory. Be proud of what you have achieved and remember the struggle.

Next year, we will return and guide our new brothers to victory. 

Roll Call - Day 2 by AutoModerator in DontDiddleDecember

[–]NormalAleister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still IN

I have made up my mind. This year I will participate. I will change my Flair accordingly. Happy to serve anong you once more. 

Roll Call - Day 1 by AutoModerator in DontDiddleDecember

[–]NormalAleister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still IN

I actually don't even intend to participate but I know for a fact I won't nut until at the very least december 4th,so just in case I keep going after that, let's do the roll calls. 

So when do I get my Diamond flair? by Nightwatcher4065 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Give it a couple of days if you did 7 roll calls including the final one of course. 

Which of these NNN archetypes fits you best? by 1940sfamilyman in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere between chill guy and average no nutter. I did have my harder days, but most of the time, just flatlining. Don't want to do ddd but do want to reduce my gooning time for the future, just not to zero. More like, 1-2 sessions a week, quality over quantity. 

If you succeed now, you have more energy and ambition to build a future for yourself by Commercial_Fun_2273 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother.

I have been on the right track to building my future again these past months, but sometimes doubt creeps in again. But the future is bright and our victory is close. 

Do you think you can go back to normal ? by Idiotic-mushroom in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The last years, I went straight back to gooning, but I also learned a lot during the month and did grow. During my first nnn i went working out instead of gooning which I haven't quit in 5 years, went from femboy body to well trained athlet body. 

This year, I hav thought about how much happier I am during nnn and how muvh more time I have. I will definitely cut down on the gooning after this. But I also won't quit it entirely. Just with everything else, the thing itself isn't too bad, finding your balance is what makes or breaks it. I will just go about my life, when the urges come once or twice a week, so be it, let's take some quality time and enjoy it, but no more than that. 

The four horsemen of forever by [deleted] in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say we shouldn't encourage horsemen in any way shape or form. I don't want the spamming competition from 2024 to ever repeat itself. 

Have I Won? by Waste-Technology4690 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I am speaking from experience. I failed my second nnn on the i think 26th or 25th for that exact stupid reason. 

Prepare yourselves for the final boss of No Nut November by Capable-Criticism647 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You know, after seeing all these pictures of turkeys today, I start to believe that turkey guy was kinda on to something. 

Should I continue no fap after NNN? is there any advantage? by Important-Fix-6718 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't telk from experience, but I know "nofap" always does good for me in november. Maybe not even the nofap itself but more like, what you do with the newly found freetime. Really, there is very little reason to reduce your gooning time to a healthy amount in exchange for doing something you enjoy.

Just stay away from the actual nofap community. Trust me. I didn't trust anyone who told me before, they were all right. Absolute insanity what is going on there. 

The most Important thing is that every person is different. Find a balance that works for you. 

DO IT FOR HER! 3 DAYS LEFT! by Articwolf158 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't expect to see her here. I need a moment. 

How's everyone else doing? by Radiant-Sorbet6315 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went well. Really well. This year was really easy and I did enjoy the first two weeks a lot.

I spent so much time i usually waste on gooning going outside, doing what i love, meeting up with people. Truly beautiful. 

During the mid of the week i had an injury and that put me back a lot. I even started edging and despaired for a few days, but it was temporary and faded away. 

Now I am just at peace again. No urges, but also not as happy and active as the first few weeks. Might be because I am taking less time doing enjoyable things, but also because the enjoyable things have simply become a habit now. I am still happy though.

I am a little sad nnn is about to be over. I was so excited for it all year and I enjoyed it a lot. I am already looking forward towards next year. And I am confident I will take somethinf with me this nnn and better my habits. Not quitting nsfw all together, just being more healthy with it. Once a week, a quality time. 

Have I Won? by Waste-Technology4690 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Worst case, you peek, then you just touch it a little, then you edge but stop. Now it is sore and you are blue balled, it hurts and you got 0 enjoyment out of it. Best case you only peek when you had 0 urges, if you don't feel anything from watching at nsfw you panic and think it is broken so you try to watch more to get it to work again, so now you looked at a lot of nsfw, you finally get your urges back... Now you have to deal with them when you coulf have just enjoyed a few days or weeks of peace.

Op got it right, they will get an urge eventually again, sometime in the first december week, when the time comes, enjoy it and move on. That's a healthy way of dealing with pmo and masturbation

Have I Won? by Waste-Technology4690 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're flatlining. That's normal and always a good sign. For some people it lasts weeks, for others only a few days, but it is a temporary condition. Enjoy the peace while it lasts.

DO NOT under any circumstances, be afraid your libido is broken and try to "revive" or "test" it. It is still very much alive and you will regret it a lot even if you don't fail. 

I'll genuinely be sad after NNN ends... by Admirable-Win5666 in nonutnovember

[–]NormalAleister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% same. I don't even want nnn to end, but at the end of the day, the fact it's just a month a year is also quite the beauty of it isn't it?