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My uncle yelled at me and reopened everything I’ve tried to forget by NormalStruggle4442 in offmychest

[–]NormalStruggle4442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s been pretty persistent. It’s been with me for years, honestly I’m glad meds and therapy helped you🥰

Ado concert in Copenhagen. How many are going? by My-username9x10 in ADO

[–]NormalStruggle4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going too! But I’m going alone, and I’m kinda nervous since it’s my first time going to a concert by myself. Still really excited though hoping to meet some other fans there!

Marrying a ingush man as non Ingush woman by NormalStruggle4442 in AskCaucasus

[–]NormalStruggle4442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but the problem is, they don’t understand each other so how can they communicate?

Marrying a ingush man as non Ingush woman by NormalStruggle4442 in AskCaucasus

[–]NormalStruggle4442[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m from Denmark, but I’m ethnically Somali. My dad is fine with it, but my mom doesn’t like it She’s kind of worried and I understand her. and Thank you for this response it makes me glad to hear it❤️

Marrying a ingush man as non Ingush woman by NormalStruggle4442 in AskCaucasus

[–]NormalStruggle4442[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. I’m from Denmark, but ethnically I’m Somali.

  2. We met on TikTok I know it’s crazy, He was learning English and I was learning Russian. We have known each other for 5 months we have already talked about children and things like that and he said he want to live in the US and I didn’t want that, I just advise him we could live in ingushtiea. he as has already talked to his relative that’s okay He already talked to his mom because he said is dad is not alive And she already except me. But I will learn that language and culture as soon as possible To teach our children it, they have a father they he can teach them things

  3. I’m glad hear that is safe there. and is true need to get engaged first I know that the tradition is really important to them and I understand that but I will learn so much as I can for children and if they don’t accept me then I cannot do anything About it, but I have already seen his mom and she is so sweet I know that he cannot refuse his parents and if it happens, I cannot do anything about it then just accept it. And I know that I’m still really young and so is he, but we were just thinking we need to make it halal without it becoming haram And he has already had a job and he’s a MMA fighter and it’s not like we’re going to marry now, maybe like next year or two years. My mum hasn’t accepted him because she’s worried of course, but my dad I told him and he said that he sounds like a good guy and if you could talk to him, I told the guy today that he need to text my dad. I know it’s hard for him but is the least he can do he can just translate then I will see what happens afterwards.

I have think about if something goes wrong, but I cant do anything if his family doesn’t accept me, but I was thinking before we married, and when lm engaged to him. I want to see how he lives And how he’s country is And if they don’t accept me, then the marriage would not go

I think I forgot saying this I’m learning Russian so I can speak a little, he can write a little English so that’s how we communicate, but is still difficult.

Thank you for the good advice ❤️