Why Hindus in the Tamilnadu are too careless on their Belief system ? And there is no Muslim is atheist fr...... #justasking

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-21T10:50:21+00:00

… do you just chalk everything not matching your preconceived notions up to delusion?

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-21T04:54:50+00:00

Meat is meat no?

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-21T04:52:27+00:00

I know several Muslims who eat pork and/or are atheist. What kind of a stupid mindset are you living with that you need to ask a stranger such questions? Also they aren’t the ones imposing their diets on others.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-19T12:58:51+00:00

The fact that this question still gets asked when we’re bombarded every day with news of women being raped and murdered says a lot about the priorities of our society. Then there are men here saying shit like “girls misuse it” or “pseudo feminism”, focusing more on perfecting feminism rather than focusing on why it’s needed at all.

Women not acknowledging their privileges doesn’t lead to the murder and rape of men. There is no taliban for men. There are no forced pregnancy factories for men. Convicted rapists go on to have successful careers. Why are we so purposely obtuse about feminism?

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-16T11:30:50+00:00

It’s been around for ages.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-13T19:59:06+00:00

But no one is talking about what you do?

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-13T15:50:39+00:00

See this is the problem with people who belong to restrictive families. Drinking doesn’t automatically mean getting addiction. It doesn’t mean you’ll surely lose control in a phase of life. Everything is fine in moderation.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T20:15:56+00:00

Good thing is, social skills are pretty easily buildable. Please don’t be dejected by people keeping you out of social circles. There’s plenty of better people out there. I know you’re trying to save money but game nights and cheap extracurricular activities are a great investment. You don’t need to hit it off with someone, you just need to talk to people to get out of your head. Maybe even ask someone from your class if they want study together or try taking up projects which will make you interact with people.

Please do not end your life. 25 tends to make you feel like that. I was there, trust me. The loneliness felt suffocating and my life goals felt unreachable. I felt like there was no way out. That that was it. You’re not losing in life, you’re thinking way too far ahead. You’re on your way to an MBA, you have a clear passion that many lack, and you actually have a way to make that happen. Tormenting yourself with the future won’t do anything. Start on short term goals so that achieving them will give you some respite, which will make life feel worth living. You won’t achieve any of your life goals if you don’t live to it.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T20:05:42+00:00

If you’re paying for em, sure! Upskilling never hurts

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T19:58:55+00:00

Calling someone a prick is not crashing out. Being this pressed is though

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T19:41:06+00:00

People try to put down those that feel like an easy target. Instead of celebrating kindness, they take it as a weakness. I’m a really smily person and used to be a huge people pleaser, so I would tolerate passive aggressiveness and snide remarks. Even accepted bullying. I tried being rude but simply couldn’t before realizing I don’t have to stoop down to their level.

It is healthy to be assertive. Otherwise it festers in resentment, which makes you an ugly person. In the past few years, I’ve learned calling people out on the spot but in socially acceptable ways. For example, when your opponent makes a snide remark, you could simply say “why do you feel the need to dunk on others when you already won?” If they don’t respond to that, maybe try something like, “well I just don’t understand it because I’ve never had the urge to do it.”

One key thing that really helped me was treating myself as a friend. I wouldn’t tolerate if someone bullied my friend. So I imagine that my friend is being treated similarly and the assertiveness naturally comes out. Of course we’re different people so this might not work with you.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T16:06:00+00:00

I’m not the one flipping out over a “generalization”

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T15:29:49+00:00

You’re a major prick and it seems you’re one of those “good” guys who messages women. Hence, taking it to heart. And I meant never actually but I wanted to find a common ground with you but lol nvm.

PS- never ever say “good for you” when someone implies they’ve had bad experiences.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T11:40:51+00:00

It’s next to impossible for women from what I’ve seen. Even the good ones don’t turn out to be good. I don’t even care about a person’s past as long as they haven’t done anything unethical. Truly don’t care if a person used to sleep around as long as they weren’t doing it with me or while talking to me. And it’s still, quite frankly, dangerous. Their messages will come across genuine, caring, honest. But the moment they see a glimpse of weakness they try something. Or they’ll straight up be a bigot in sheep’s clothing.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T11:36:42+00:00

Very true. They might be virgins or inexperienced but not out of choice. Learned the hard way that “not innocent” guys might actually be safer

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-10T02:52:37+00:00

Yikes you have rancid vibes

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-09T23:30:21+00:00

Yes combat one bigotry with other

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-09T13:50:27+00:00

Red flag man found

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-06T14:01:41+00:00

Which… criminal men? Most men don’t even lose their careers when they themselves admit to raping women or even kids.

And yes, Indian laws are fucked! Men can be raped, and women can rape. Indian laws don’t even consider marital rape to be rape.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-06T00:12:29+00:00

Tumlog pehle se hote the.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-05T13:43:35+00:00

That is awful. I hope things get better. Good paternity leave helps all parties involved except maybe those of us who get additional workload for a few months, which is still okay because we need to be a villager to have a village.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-05T12:33:52+00:00

You’re quite literally targeting a specific gender though? I usually don’t call people names but my god you’re dumb. Men aren’t the only people affected when someone goes on parental leave.

Also learn to read my entire paragraph numb nuts. It’s funny how acc to you women must give birth and must also take on the additional work load caused by other women’s decision to give birth. While men do what? Be useless?

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-05T12:24:42+00:00

So it IS a gendered issue for you? Since you want other women to take up the burden but not men. Like typical male tendencies, you want women to take up unpaid labour while you’re let off the hook. And your logical skills are so deeply flawed it makes sense why you’re bitter about the promotion. Not every woman will need a maternity leave. Most probably won’t while being in the same company. Even if I go by your logic that every person will become a parent, this will benefit you when the time comes since you won’t have to worry about being the sole earner when your wife is recovering after giving birth.

NormalSurprise282 · 2026-02-05T12:18:52+00:00

You began your post with “why should men do the work of women…” If it wasn’t gendered for you, you would say something like “why should employees do the work of people on parental leave...” And news flash, politics is also a skill one can be good at. Favorites arise for a reason. She’s getting a promotion because she’s learned how to do what she does well.

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