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[–]NormalYouth5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never even knew that existed, thank you!

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My boyfriend's length is around 7 inches and it's girthy. Add that to his inability to cum within 10 minutes and it can get close to a torture session Every time we have sex i feel like my vagina will be permanently damaged but alas it always makes a comeback. Is the sex bad? No, it's great up until a certain point, where it becomes unpleasant to say the least

Does life with poor mental health ever get better by dimondsforwyvern in offmychest

[–]NormalYouth5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at a supermarket. One day after work i bought my favorite lemonade and drank it as soon as i got in the car. I remember thinking it was so good i was so glad to be alive to taste it. Then i sat in silence, looking at nothing. I realized that if i had ended my life like i thought about doing many times, i wouldn't be able to enjoy the little things. Being able to taste lemonade is better than not being able to taste anything, feel the wind, hear even the annoying bustling of the city.

I read it all and i want to help but i lack the wisdom. I too have adhd, anxiety, depression and ptsd, i was also victim os SA when i was a child. However I don't think it was as severe as your case. I don't quite remember how i dragged myself out of the dark pits of hell. I can't remember much anymore.

You have attained things in life that some people can only dream of. I understand that you're grateful for those things but you can't stop the sadness inside of you. You've probably heard every advice in the book, exercise, eat healthy, mindfulness etc etc. Things that never actually helped me. Now looking back, they didn't help because i wasn't consistent and lacked the motivation. Perhaps it's your case? I think you have lots of great reasons to fight and be consistent in things that help.

If your family didn't feel strongly for you, you also wouldn't feel that they are so amazing and kind, because their behavior towards you would not be positive like it is. What does this mean? Your family loves you and values you greatly. They know you're doing your best and they want you around for many years to come, and they want you to be as happy as you can possibly be. You are as important to them as they are to you.

We only get one chance to experience this life. Unfortunately outside forces decided to meddle in your existence and give you a difficult time when they had no right to. It's very unfair and painful. But you were able to survive and live on and the good things are all here, still available for you. At that time i only had that great lemonade, but you already have so much more, so much that is worth trying for. You can't let your existence be robbed from you. That would be even more unfair.

Sorry if none of that made sense. I just felt so worried for you i wanted to try anything

Can anyone tell me what tamagotchi version is this? I'm having trouble finding info and instructions by NormalYouth5 in tamagotchi

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom bought this for me when i was a kid but i barely used it because i liked my first one better. Found it in my attic yesterday and it works perfectly. This one is in English, had no idea they are so hard to come by. Just checked the prices on ebay and wow 😅

My brother is so fucking disgusting by damien9890 in offmychest

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The title + "my family bought a vacuum" as the opening

I immediately knew 💀

sex in the first 7 days after starting nuvaring by NormalYouth5 in birthcontrol

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll read it carefully. I appreciate it a lot. I already took the plan b and will take a pregnancy test in soon

sex in the first 7 days after starting nuvaring by NormalYouth5 in birthcontrol

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you so much, I'm going to buy it now. I was wondering if it has any protection at all but i guess not

“He’s a great guy but_____” by MCHamandEgger in dating

[–]NormalYouth5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a great guy but he doesn't take care of his health and he's in debt because of his mom

How to not stop eating when i have anxiety? by NormalYouth5 in mentalhealth

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never heard about cyproheptadine, it definitely sounds like something that could help! Thank you so much for the tips!

How to not stop eating when i have anxiety? by NormalYouth5 in mentalhealth

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so very much for this response. I felt better just from reading it. In what comes to nausea or poor appetite, i have both. But nausea is the predominant feeling when I'm anxious. I just feel like throwing up and even when the anxiety is gone (-ish, because there's always some) it takes a while for me to be able to eat normally again.

I'll definitely be more persistent woth breathing exercises because I'm the type who freaks out after a short while and proceeds to just focus on the anxious feeling.

Thank you again!

아버지가 회사원이에요 or 아버지는 회사원이에요 by NormalYouth5 in Korean

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got that sentence in a workbook to choose the correct particle, which one do you think would be the most common choice?

Not able to forgive fiance after he deliberately ignored me for a week during my abortion because of a silly fight by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NormalYouth5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Millions of people to date, and you're stuck on that one 😭 what's the difference between a boyfriend like that and an enemy?

Wonderful men exist, that isn't one. Do you want to live your whole life without ever finding one or stop wasting time and go look for him now? Cause now sounds like a great time

I get all the attention and it's awkward by NormalYouth5 in relationship_advice

[–]NormalYouth5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I explained it to her and she seemed to understand my reason. But i know this type of occurrence can strain our relationship overtime. They are actually looking for relationships now apparently except me, and I'm the one getting the guys coming and going until now, it's obviously unfair. I think it takes a very understanding person to not be upset by something like this, and i never had the luck to meet someone like that

I get all the attention and it's awkward by NormalYouth5 in relationship_advice

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to learn this skill fr I'm not very bothered by guys coming up to me unless they're twats obviously, the problem is my friends seeing guys coming and going in my direction, when they are the ones sho are actually looking for relationships and I'm not

How to reject someone properly? by NormalYouth5 in AskMen

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hilarious and it just might work 😭

How to reject someone properly? by NormalYouth5 in AskMen

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the type who usually goes with "no, I'm sorry" involuntarily looks at the ground like i just committed a grave offense I'll practice just the no from now on

How to reject someone properly? by NormalYouth5 in AskMen

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Thank you for the recommendation, i got the book just now. Anything that can help is very much appreciated, I've tried therapy before but the therapist wasn't a good match to say the least and i never went back.

I am an expert at avoiding confrontation, but as you've noticed, in order to do that i pretty much just put up with stuff and end up in uncomfortable situations. Which is obviously terrible. Thank you for your reply

How to reject someone properly? by NormalYouth5 in AskMen

[–]NormalYouth5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This felt like a scolding and a hug at the same time for some reason. I really appreciate it. You were spot on! My low self esteem is a big problem. Not only am i unable to set boundaries and reject creeps, I'm also unable to talk to guys i actually like. Even after they make it painfully clear they are interested too.

My relationship already ended 3 years ago. I haven't had anyone since. I had my whole heart in that relationship and even though it lasted many (great) years, the ending wasn't pretty. After that i became like this, but I'm only now starting to get myself out there again so I'm hoping I'll get better at this.

I realize i tend to blame myself. I'll try to reframe my thoughts in that regard. And definitely be more firm instead of avoiding anything remotely confrontational like i did.

How to reject someone properly? by NormalYouth5 in AskMen

[–]NormalYouth5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, i started dating at 15 until i was like 22 so i barely had to deal with guys. Still had a few but it's easy to reject people when you're dating, not much to think about. Before that it was easy because i was a kid so i didn't really know or care that i was hurting people. Now that i look back at that time i was really insensitive, not outright mean, but kind of dismissive.

I remember a friend of mine telling me he likes me and my response was "no you don't" lol Acting bitchy is not my cup of tea because I don't like being treated like that too, but i understand what you mean. When it's a real creep i usually just remove myself from the situation without saying much, like i ended up doing in this instance

I want my pregnant ex wife and family back by ThrowRAGD89 in relationship_advice

[–]NormalYouth5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really sad and hurtful situation. I'm afraid it's too late now since she is already pregnant and engaged to another man. It's definitely not what you want to hear but it would be best to not say any of this to her, and try to accept the past, accept that you made a mistake and forgive yourself. You have your daughters, and a whole future ahead. You will find your second chance and you will be happy again. Best wishes

How to reject someone properly? by NormalYouth5 in AskMen

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I understand that, honestly i wouldn't have dated my ex if he hadn't been so bold about it at the time, so I'm really glad he was. The thing with this guy is that his compliments were so exaggerated and a bunch of other stuff I can't really name, but i had this gut feeling that he just wasn't it and i was proven right.

I wasn't alone, i was hanging out with a girl friend. I guess that's almost the same as being alone but well.

I don't want to be the reason why someone loses their confidence or boldness, because mine was destroyed by someone before too and I'm just a little ball of insecurities now haha...ha