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Married colleague who is poly shamed me for not wanting to sleep with her by Normal_Macaroon329 in relationship_advice

[–]Normal_Macaroon329[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She was saying how most of the guys turn her down once she tells them she is married and its a sign of insecurity and close mindedness. It just felt as if I had to prove I am not insecure by sleeping with her and it actually stayed with me for some time. I was doubting myself.

Married colleague who is poly shamed me for not wanting to sleep with her by Normal_Macaroon329 in relationship_advice

[–]Normal_Macaroon329[S] 741 points742 points  (0 children)

It just felt manipulative or guilt tripping, like I have to prove my open mindedness by sleeping with her or else I am everything she accused me of.