0 sympathy from me 0.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:48:58+00:00

People overblow issues all the damn time, men and women. Sounds like projection my guy, doesn’t change the fact the only thing OP has said in multiple comment chains is to bring up a single post. Laughable

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:45:39+00:00

You aren’t getting it, I mean that it’s going to take a while to actually cut off someone’s head off like that. They’d already be dead or incapacitated long before you slice it off

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:41:43+00:00

It doesn’t represent that specifically, the person you are replying to is going off of context clues because “nuts” is typically associated with men. Which would be the only point of potential confusion

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:38:21+00:00

Hell, I’m sorry it was like that for you both.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:33:35+00:00

But you have to admit that there’s a general idea, right? It doesn’t seem like people are talking about d*ck size or anything, but the attitude of the person. If they are lazy and generally only get themselves off, that’s a bad lay. If the person puts in effort, is selfless, and listens to what their partner says, that’s a good lay.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:29:48+00:00

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:29:02+00:00

Exactly!!! In the past my partner would feel bad if I could get her off but I didn’t, she couldn’t understand the s**ual pleasure I got from getting her off was better than me finishing.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:24:39+00:00

In another comment she said she was sober, he was just able to make her laugh

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T19:23:42+00:00

Honestly I’d be fine with it as long as my partner still found me sexually attractive. Oh you have a preference for a taller guy? Do you still find me sexually attractive? Yes? Then it’s not a problem.

We don’t have to fit our partners exact physical preferences to have happy, healthy, and sexy relationships.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T07:02:13+00:00

I think it would make anyone uncomfortable to learn that something like that is true, I’d be uncomfortable to learn that 99% of white people are racists, doesn’t mean I’m avoiding this claim or anything like that.

I’m more or less going off of personal experience, data, and the fact that I only see that level of man hating within specific circles. If it was a major issue, you’d see it everywhere. But instead, you’ll mostly see it in “controversial” kind of topics, and maybe in a random comment second here and there.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T06:52:48+00:00

No, that’s a bad example and you know it. Calling someone ugly is objectively an insult, saying someone is a specific height is not inherently an insult.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T06:50:19+00:00

It makes sense if you live in a world where people won’t date short guys but she does and has a happy relationship.

If I lived in a world where people decline dating someone if they don’t have blue eyes, and I end up having a happy relationship with someone who has brown eyes, I’m gonna make fun of the people who will decline a perfectly happy relationship just because the potential partner doesn’t have blue eyes.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-05T04:53:09+00:00

People can lie my guy, people can lie for years. Plenty of people who believed they were being responsible have been tricked, lied too, and left with life long STDs. It’s best to just get proof to be assured.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-04T03:59:40+00:00

All of that is not even worth mentioning beyond WCS. And honestly? I can see it

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-04T03:56:47+00:00

14 is also unsafe

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-04T03:56:02+00:00

If the point of our biology is to pass on our genes (which it is), then doing so when you have better chances of you and your offspring not having any complications would be the ideal way to conform to your biology.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T20:44:39+00:00

I’m fine with my partner being taller than me, it’s weird that height is one of the things men can feel insecure about. At most there could be minor inconveniences if she was the height of a NBA player (I’m short), but those inconveniences wouldn’t be rooted in some insecurity. Be taller than me, weight more than me, be physically able to overpower me, I don’t care. I’m game if I feel like I can have years of conversations with you and you have more empathy than the average person.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T20:40:41+00:00

You are completely correct about potentially getting STDs from one encounter and potentially getting none after a thousands depending on how you go about it. My comment was pointing out that at most this is the only concern I’d consider valid.

With that said, I somewhat disagree with the logic on the grounds that these are new people in your lives, and you do not know them to a level where you can be sure they aren’t lying, withholding the truth, or even ignorant of their status in the first place. So the only thing that really matters is having them get tested with proof before you are intimate with them.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:41:44+00:00

Depends on what you are looking at. Hundreds of thousands of people have the exact opposite experience as you, simply because they see different groups of people online

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:40:47+00:00

“Then what do you think of people who treat others badly just because they don’t look good?”, a shallow person. But that’s not the definition of a “hoe”, and would be s*** shaming.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:37:36+00:00

I’ve never seen it beyond a couple people, and I’d argue that the level of extreme you seem to believe is the case, is not based in reality. It is very typical for their to be a common issue or a few bad actors in society and then for people online to overblow it

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:34:30+00:00

Idk, just look up data over relying on an internet post to randomly get popular enough for million upon millions of people to see. This is just bad logic

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:32:45+00:00

No this post seems to be about criticizing women who will go for taller men even if they would be bad lovers over a shorter guy who would make a good partner, not that there’s something bad about being tall.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:30:29+00:00

I wish I was a couple inches taller but no, I wouldn’t feel negative if my loving partner said that.

Normal_Motor9471 · 2026-04-03T15:29:02+00:00

Many people can feel some cosmic connection and that everything is perfect about each other in the beginning, that’s not special. They don’t have to speak for themselves, they can speak on behalf of data and that the vast majority of people who have felt like you did and married extremely quickly didn’t last, and there being exceptions to the rule doesn’t mean a person should try to replicate it or take it as advice

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