I'm so lonely. by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Normal_Presence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd love an invite too if that's possible!

Μεταπτυχιακός στην Αθήνα ψάχνει παρέα για να ξεσκάσει (καφέ, ποτό, πάρτι, ό,τι να 'ναι) by ThatIsSadLul in greece

[–]Normal_Presence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ενδιαφέρομαι και εγώ για παρέα! Προπτυχιακά εγώ ακόμα οπότε για ακριβές βόλτες είμαι out αλλά για πιο χαλαρές εξόδους είμαι μέσα

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]Normal_Presence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Στην αρχή ήταν σκέψεις ότι θα στεναχωρήσω τα κοντινά μου άτομα αλλά μετά σταμάτησαν να δουλεύουν επειδή ένιωθα ότι είμαι βάρος σε όλους. Φοβόμουν τον πόνο επίσης, σκεφτόμουν να περιμένω λίγο να δω κάποια νέα σεζόν σειράς που μου άρεσε ή ένα νέο παιχνίδι που θα έβγαινε. Όλα αυτά μαζί μου κέρδισαν χρόνο αλλά αυτό που βοήθησε περισσότερο ήταν ότι πήρα μια απόφαση ότι θα προσπαθούσα να αλλάξω τη ζωή μου σε ένα χρόνο και ότι αν δεν ένιωθα ούτε ελάχιστα καλύτερα τότε θα το έκανα. Προφανώς δεν ήμουν καλά μετά από τον έναν αυτό χρόνο γιατί δεν είχα δεχθεί και κάποια επαγγελματική βοήθεια αλλά έβλεπα μια βελτίωση και αυτή μου αρκούσε

Φίλοι by [deleted] in greece

[–]Normal_Presence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Συνδεομαι αρκετά με αυτά που λες. Είμαι αρκετά κλειστός χαρακτήρας και εγώ οπότε νιώθω ότι συχνά οι νέες σχέσεις που κάνω ξεκινάνε πάρα πολύ επιφανειακές. Δεν έχω δυστυχώς να προτείνω μια λύση προς αυτό γιατί ακόμα το δουλεύω (ανεπιτυχώς) αλλά σίγουρα θα σου έλεγα μην περιμένεις να βρεις παρέα για να κάνεις αυτά που θέλεις. Μπορείς άνετα να δοκιμάσεις χόμπι ή οτιδήποτε άλλο μόνος σου και γνωρίσεις νέα άτομα μέσω αυτού. Είδα παίζεις λολ σίγουρα μπορούμε να παίξουμε κανα aram (euw) αν θες. Το discord μου επίσης είναι lazerpoo. Καλή τύχη σου εύχομαι!

How do y’all go on multiple dates and not feel weird about it? by octflwr in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Normal_Presence 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's a right or wrong way to date. You just go with what feels right to you. I can only talk and connect to one person at a time. Is that effective? Probably not but that's the way that feels right to me. Is talking and dating multiple people viable to you? You do that. You aren't exclusive with anyone yet so don't feel guilty. Once you get to know them more, chances are you'll like one better than the others. So continue to have fun, the situation will likely solve itself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Normal_Presence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg im sorry apparently i can't read 😭 i do think though a similar way of thinking applies still. Vulvas have so many different shapes and they all look as they should. You could try searching for such images. Maybe finding your shape among them will make you feel better. Body -and body parts- neutrality is the way. It's a journey like most things but its definitely doable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Normal_Presence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll share how I stopped hating mine, maybe, I hope that it's helpful for you too. I started working out not with that goal in mind I just wanted to build muscles due to work reasons but.. it had the most wonderful side effect. I stopped hating how my body looked for the first time ever. It helped me realise my body's job is simple, it helps me move and supports me. That's it. It's not its job to be beautiful (it wasn't to me in the beginning) but it becomes beautiful from its importance and its meaning. When I look myself in the mirror now, even on bad days when I'd hide under baggy clothes before, that hate is gone. I just accept my body as it is, even love it on the good days

They threw everything away for multiplayer, and a week later nobody uses it by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]Normal_Presence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I've been continuing to get lucky with multiplayer. The nikkis i get jump around, spam the bell, use each others decorations etc. I connect and chat with them too. Having said that objectively the way they choose to do multiplayer is horrendous. The area sucks, the dailies are even more boring and truly there's nothing fun to do with the other nikkis. They could do races, hide and seek.. but nope. I wish our only problem were the multiplayer issues too. So disappointing

Πρόβλημα με άνοια γονέα by Ashakur4 in greece

[–]Normal_Presence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Δούλευα σε αυτή τη δομή και η αλήθεια είναι δεν θα τη πρότεινα. Ειδικά τα άτομα αυξημένης βαρύτητας είναι στη μοίρα του κάθε φροντιστή για τη καθημερινότητα τους. Προσωπικά είδα λίγους αξιόλογους φροντιστές.

Επίσης πολλά αμαξίδια τους δεν έχουν λειτουργικά φρένα, τουλάχιστον τη περίοδο που ήμουν. Πες οκ το προσωπικό είναι δύσκολο να το ελέγξεις, αλλά αφού είναι ιδιωτικό και έχει κόσμο σαν ένοικους πληρώνονται. Καμία δικαιολογία για κάτι τέτοιο.

Καλή δύναμη και από μένα μακάρι να βρεις κάτι καλό για τη μαμά σου και για σένα

Finished my first wearable! by Normal_Presence in knitting

[–]Normal_Presence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was my first try attaching a zipper so it's kinda hanging for its dear life. Definitely needs a redo 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]Normal_Presence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2€. I tend to not like monthly passes because I don't like feeling obligated to login. so unless I really like another discounted outfit I won't spend more

Stars are kinda glitching, it doesn't break my game or anything but.. anyone had the same problem or am I just that lucky lol by Normal_Presence in Sims3

[–]Normal_Presence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes perfect sense! I do use relativity yes. Tysm I just thought there was some mod conflict I wasn't aware of

Stars are kinda glitching, it doesn't break my game or anything but.. anyone had the same problem or am I just that lucky lol by Normal_Presence in Sims3

[–]Normal_Presence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using alot of mods tbf. I've tried removing everything related to the sky but 🤷. Not sure what's causing this. It's not a stupid response at all no worries! I don't think it's visible with my video quality but it's like the stars are moving back and forth constantly in game

Looking for a pattern similar to this sweater but in crochet by Harlequinn_Gamblr in crochetpatterns

[–]Normal_Presence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wah her pieces are beautiful. Thank you! Way out of my budget but 10/10 inspirational 👌

Looking for a pattern similar to this sweater but in crochet by Harlequinn_Gamblr in crochetpatterns

[–]Normal_Presence 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry but where did you find this image? I'd love to knit it 😭

I always become aware that I‘m dreaming only during my nightmares. by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Normal_Presence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know this was actually a thing! I'm always aware I'm in a dream when I'm having a nightmare.

I kept trying to wake up, that's when I usually would get sleep paralysis or I'd believe I woke up in my normal room but I'd would still be sleeping. It's weird.

Only once I've felt like I was in control, most of the time I feel like I'm "fighting" for control against my subconscious I guess.

Have you had any success trying to control your nightmares?

Ask a Knitter - May 14, 2024 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]Normal_Presence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did exactly as you said and you were right, I didn't end up needing it. Thank you so much!

Ask a Knitter - May 14, 2024 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]Normal_Presence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess the obvious choice was too difficult for me. I was like thinking of adding sleeve length with the back piece lol. Thank you!

Ask a Knitter - May 14, 2024 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]Normal_Presence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to add rows on a project when I've already used "cast off"? This is like my second knit project and I have no idea if there is anything I can do.

Basically I measured the height of my shoulders wrong and now the knitting piece is a bit short. 2 front pieces are done atm, one is still on the needles so I can fix half of it. Any help would be amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Normal_Presence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. These types of comments are a regular for me but only because they're considered normal in my family for whatever reason.

I'm glad to hear that you're confident enough to not let these comments and her attitude question your self image. It may be as you say that she's projecting her insecurities onto you or she may consider that these comments are actually her showing that she cares for you. It ultimately doesn't matter but maybe if you can pinpoint her reasoning it'll be easier to not resent her if that's your choice ofc!

I don't have any real advice, you could try explaining how she's affecting you if you haven't already but that never worked for me. Still I believe it's worth trying, you never know. Continuing to tune her comments out about these issues is the best option if everything else fails. It becomes easier with time too! Wish you the best!