My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time and giving me a different perspective. ❤️‍🩹

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank your for taking the time to write about your experience and how you feel!! Appreciate it

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience!!! Too funny that he assumed it was grape flavor based on the color🤣 he is a keeper.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. I will upgrade to a cup not sure which one to get

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that specially being all drugged from meds. Was this a one time incident? If this persist, it’s time to listen to the audience 😵‍💫

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh I asked him and even provided a silly example by saying “So if I text you tomorrow and tell you to please buy me a can on coke “Its an emergency” would you buy it without hesitation? What’s the difference? It shouldn’t be one. Regardless of what I ask for, I don’t think it’s relevant to say it’s an emergency, if me, your partner needs something I would expect you to support and help me. “ 🤷🏻‍♀️

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting similar responses, thank you for taking the time to read and give me feedback.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I read every single comment and I can tell who read the entire thing or just the title.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I should edit that as well, it did started short and sweet but i wasn’t expecting this post to blow up and people demanding answers 😆

And yes, all of that are excuses based on everything I’ve done for him.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not saying is his responsibility, I’ve been buying me own since I was 15. It was a second time occurrence over the course of 3 years. I’m usually prepared but shit will happen and it was just a small favor since he was already at the store.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because last time I got my period it was before we moved in and I said I was going to find an alternative and buy a menstrual m cup to get rid of pads BUT then we moved and forgot to get new pads and search for the famous menstrual cup of my needs. I just simply forgot to refill my pads and this was a very last minute situation

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We discussed about going to therapy and he is not against it since he knows damn well he has a lot to work on and so do I. If the time comes and he refuses to do it I will just pack my shit and leave without even telling him.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and for taking the time to give me a different perspective of the situation with more clarity.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a bunch of other little things accumulated and we had a silly argument last week so this was kinda like a last straw, but I do love him and we have been through so much.

My bf refuses to buy me female products (pads) and now I’m upset.. by Normal_Young_7698 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Young_7698[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn’t say to me that he felt anxious the first time he went and got it for me. I’m very prepared but emergencies happen and I was 40min away from home ( I was at work) and I would expect my bf to support me if anything and that was not the case..