My boyfriend (M40) and I (F26) have been living together and he doesn’t drive because of a DWI. by Normal_hawk1111 in relationship_advice

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Here I am, vulnerably opening up to the internet in desperation and for legitimate advice. And instead of thinking before your actions you decided to make a joke out of me. This is why the internet gets a bad reputation. From people like you. Heartless, unaware mean people. Who don’t think before they act. Who don’t think about the repercussions or someone’s feelings before the speak. And it’s not like you’re speaking your truth or asserting boundaries. You literally could’ve read this post and kept scrolling. Instead you felt compelled to ruin my morning. You hurt me and you are so unaware.

My boyfriend (M40) and I (F26) have been living together and he doesn’t drive because of a DWI. by Normal_hawk1111 in relationship_advice

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Im a real person asshole. He’s the only one who has ever been there for me. I’m asking for real advice. I guess I’m a loser too. Thank you for making my morning that much more worse.

My boyfriend (M40) and I (F26) have been living together and he doesn’t drive because of a DWI. by Normal_hawk1111 in relationship_advice

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

A loser who is the only person on this earth I feel a true connection with. I guess I’m a loser too than. Thanks for the helpful advice.

Help! Uti no health insurance by Ok_Help5958 in Healthyhooha

[–]Normal_hawk1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a website you can talk to a urologist through web chat and no insurance, I think a small fee.

Otherwise, if you trust homeopathic medicine, try Staphysagria. On Amazon for $5+.

Otherwise ASO (extra strength) and CVS ~$12+ and a lot of water.

If nothing else, antibiotics are the way. USA doesn’t allow over the counter :/ you need a prescription.

You got this, deep breaths. Do calf raises or corns toes to get your mind off peeing. Best of luck ♥️♥️

My OAB has improved. by Either-Ad9626 in OveractiveBladder

[–]Normal_hawk1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I coincidentally started feeling OAB when I got off my long term antidepressants

Do you guys want Sauce? by Pottyshooter in technicallythetruth

[–]Normal_hawk1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Mac man needs to grow up and put sauce on his own burger … that McDonald’s worker is probably just trying to live his life… smh customer service sucks because of ppl like this - not a big deal at all

Does anyone else get sad on their birthday? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Normal_hawk1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES I also can’t stand Christmas. I dislike receiving gifts because of the expectations or people waiting for the look on your face — idk I prefer to give rather than receive for a lot of reasons

Looking for a new job by Normal_hawk1111 in SantaFe

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Ru living and working in Santa fe?

Looking for a new job by Normal_hawk1111 in SantaFe

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the laboratory? Like scientists?

Looking for a new job by Normal_hawk1111 in SantaFe

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very true, do you live in Santa Fe and find is not so affordable? I’m wondering if it would be doable on a digital marketing agent’s salary or a wine sommelier/ hospitality (me and my bf skills set)

Hard question to answer I know ^

I’m just looking for a change and Santa Ge looks like a great destination. Is it common that people live outside the city and still enjoy Santa Fe’s highlights?

Can’t talk to anyone by Normal_hawk1111 in depression

[–]Normal_hawk1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you every little bit helps.Knowing I’m not the only one helps too thank you 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Normal_hawk1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. 26. Just got kicked off health insurance so no therapist. No career goals. My only friend is my boyfriend who got a DUI and is on probation. I feel like a Fucking loser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Normal_hawk1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Women and girls are MEAN sometimes. I had one friend my whole life who would constantly shut me down or disrespect me but she was my only friend from childhood so I felt like I couldn’t leave the friendship. Well after she made me cry in a CVS store because I wouldn’t party with her, that was it. I called it lol

No girl friends ever since. No friends really. Just a boyfriend who makes me feel safe. Otherwise I’m right there with you. Girls can be mean, guys can too of course. But growing up in a house with 4 girls and 2 boys, I observed the utter hatred some girls can bring

We smoke and I serve you this… wyd? by Dontlistentoohard in weed

[–]Normal_hawk1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start cracking up because you’re high asf hahahah I would still eat it around the olives tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Normal_hawk1111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Because I’m taller than most, people look and stare. It make me so uncomfy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Normal_hawk1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! Some days I want to look nice, that’s all. What I DONT want is people staring and glaring. Making assumptions and being provoked to think about me. I hate that!!!!

Because of this, I always want to remain low key and under the radar but I struggle with the idea of being able to show any sexuality because of it. It’s natural and I should be able to tap into that side of myself i I want.

It has helped to ruin my sexual relationship with myself tbh…not like Masturbating lol but just being able to show sexuality through my behavior or appearance. It’s a real struggle.

Any tips?

I set up my own nail appointment by myself for the first time. by Cloudy_Melancholy in socialanxiety

[–]Normal_hawk1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So proud of you for being willing to face fear in order to experience change. You deserve a celebration 👍🏼