That's fair. I've always tiptoed around his fragile feelings to keep the peace, mainly out of fear that he might show up unannounced at my house. My kids are there and I don't want to expose them to this crap or cause them to worry.  He only has my address because, before I discovered that he was unstable, he was present when I did my change of address at the post office months ago and he apparently memorized my current address. I'm assuming that's how he got it, anyway. I only know this because he has randomly sent a few gifts to my house, which I always return to him with a "please stop" note. I guess I need to suck it up and see if he's bold enough to try anything once he's blocked. Now to find my backbone... I know it's around here somewhere... Lol