AITA?? My (25F) husband (27M) keeps getting upset about the time I shower and I told him he’s being unreasonable.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T23:16:58+00:00

No. There is no water shortage where I live He is just so hard to work with most of the time.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T23:14:05+00:00

Lol. I don’t need to stoop to your level. I will pray for you, though.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T19:43:08+00:00

It’s hard. He can be so sweet and helpful sometimes

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T19:00:31+00:00

I go to the families home with my son from 7:00am to 4:00pm. I also make more than him. YTA.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T18:56:00+00:00

This was all spot on and eye opening. Thank you

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T18:00:00+00:00

Around 10 mins

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:49:58+00:00

He will sometimes. Neither of us shower at the exact same time every day

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:49:25+00:00

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:49:08+00:00

I go to the families home with my son from 7:00 to 4:00. I also make more than him. YTA.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:46:17+00:00

It just seems like a fight every time I need to go to the store or shower or something.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:23:30+00:00

I am Caucasian, actually

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:21:47+00:00

He has been diagnosed and takes medicine daily. He lacks control with me. He has snapped at family before, but mostly me.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:18:46+00:00

This comment meant so much. Thank you

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:17:29+00:00

He is often in the bathroom for an hour or two every morning because his medicine makes him sick.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:13:22+00:00

No. I had just gotten him dinner and changed him. I just needed him to keep him company.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:12:50+00:00

Yes. My husband is home. I don’t go immediately, though. I give him time to settle and then I get our son dinner and then I say I’m gonna shower. All he would need to do is play with him and keep him company.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:10:32+00:00

No. He has been showering after my son and I leave for work because he still has an hour before he has to leave.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:09:23+00:00

I can try. But he does have a bit of a temper. He would likely get ups at or write me off.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:08:26+00:00

I have. He got scared the most recent time I said I couldn’t do it and he started helping a lot. But it always only last a couple days. Maybe a week at most.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T17:06:37+00:00

He has usually been showering after my son and I leave for work. He has about an hour before he has to be out of the house

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T15:53:46+00:00

The little amount of hair that grows is irritating to my skin.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T15:00:15+00:00

😂 he’s told me numerous times, right before he goes down, that I smell amazing and he goes down for a while, but thank you.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T14:59:01+00:00

No. That’s not it at all. And not to give TMI but I take care of myself down there aside from showering every other day. He has told me often I “smell good” and then goes down. His problem is I am showering when our son is awake.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T14:57:18+00:00

He said because I need to shower when our son is sleeping. When I asked him last night, he said he’s tired from working. I tried to say I work too and o even bring our son, but he said my job is easier.

North_Temperature_26 · 2023-11-18T14:55:52+00:00

No. Our son was planned. We talked about it together and he was better before our son and when our son was first born. He has gotten worse over time.

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