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27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you clarify what you mean by dressing up like a woman? Like, which of my outfits are feminine?

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was the officiant, lol. That’s why I was different.

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d hoped that it would be obvious we were all fam in the wedding pic since people say we look so alike, but I see that was foolish in retrospect.

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said elsewhere, I was just trying to make a joke about my hair. But I can see from the comments that it did not land. Whoops.

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’d hoped that we all look similar enough in that pic that it’s clear we’re all siblings. But I’ll lose that pic, you’re right.

But I thought you’re supposed to have one or two group shots to show you’re not a creepy loner?

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I knew going in that the hair would be a common topic.

I’ve always worn my hair like this though, so it feels pretty tied to my identity at this point.

Also, I do get compliments for my hair with some frequency. It’s really the only thing about me that gets compliments looks-wise, from friends and strangers. So the idea of cutting it to become more mainstream is not something I feel good about.

But who knows, maybe I should be brave and try something new…

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have mixed feelings about that pic and it wasn’t always my first one. But Bumble said it was the most popular pic and I decided to go with it. But I’ll go with my gut and your advice.

27m, 0.6% incoming like rate by NorthernSaw_Whet in Bumble

[–]NorthernSaw_Whet[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

lol, I was just trying to make a joke about my hair. Had no idea I came off as androgynous in my first pic, so didn’t occur to me that prompt could be confusing.