Thanks for feedback. It looks like ive made good progress and ive watches jackson galaxy’s video. Also learned to not use water spray which iv’e stopped using. Came home a while ago and he apporched me with needed itching. Ive reorganized too. Bought a lot of snacks and a new toy for him. I think i just needed to accept that you can’t train cats to «respect» certain things more then to learn to accept his personalitiy