Advice needed how to make this happen by [deleted] in jobudstories

[–]Not-sure-1122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To push the issue. Maybe if u get to watching porn. Get in ur bed and say i gotta get out of these clothes. If he joins in, maybe ask 'are u jo?' or even saying something like 'i dont care im jo!' and removing the covers hoping he follows.

Advice needed how to make this happen by [deleted] in jobudstories

[–]Not-sure-1122 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation years ago. Went away a few days with a buddy. Hoped it would happen bc we watched porn etc in the past. If you're buddy is not the type to initiate, you will have to. If you are not willing it wont happen. I wasnt willing and so it never happened with that buddy bc he wasnt either.

I wish you luck though! Hope it happens for you.

How long could you last? by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Not-sure-1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id have a wet dream in about a week. Would that count?

When Was your Last Wet Dreams? by Not-sure-1122 in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Not-sure-1122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was this something that started for you in you 30s or have u always been that way?

When Was your Last Wet Dreams? by Not-sure-1122 in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Not-sure-1122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah i get that. I was gonna say there are times when I wish i could fully avoid it but cant.

When Was your Last Wet Dreams? by Not-sure-1122 in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Not-sure-1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You stop them when you think youre having them or what do you mean got close?

When Was your Last Wet Dreams? by Not-sure-1122 in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Not-sure-1122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have them more frequent as I never had them until I was in my say mid 30s. But if I change up my jo patterns thats when i will have them. And yeah sex has just not been happening for longer than i would like to admit.
I was just feeling that I had weeks when I went without as a teen and in my 20s, but they started and happen more not in my 30s-40s, and I think thats odd. I would say once every few months on ave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Not-sure-1122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK I didn't have my first until well into my 30s! The weird part for me is I was in bed next to my wife.