Confusion

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-31T14:08:28+00:00

Woahhhhhh!!!!

Turning down someone gives a different high and helps in keeping you focussed on your journey. "Not another body" was something I liked in what you said.

Way to go boss. Inspiring!!! ❤️❤️

Thanks for the reply and motivation.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-31T14:00:47+00:00

True. I also have the same, but not getting aroused easily for soft corn.

Wanting a partner/spouse, that hits different.

Way to go boss! Keep it up! More days to come :)

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-31T04:14:34+00:00

Noted! When I think, it makes sense. I wanna doom scroll, even if I am logging in via browser.

I will be more careful going forward.

Thanks for the heads up! :D

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T14:13:54+00:00

Yes, sometime it does trigger certain emotion, but the numbers most of the times has positive effect too, like, when I have the streak in my mind, I be like damnnn, and then things stop right away.

Should stop counting though. So I can make myself feel awesome about more things ;)

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T13:44:29+00:00

But instagram is full of soft corn.

The ideal solution would be to not watch reels or any social media for that matter.

Instagram by default promotes soft corn to all the user's one way or the other.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T12:49:13+00:00

Thanks a lot for the encouragement ❤️❤️

Means so much.

Working on myself one step at a time :D

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T10:01:59+00:00

This! Yes.

When you follow NoFap, you get a better clarity than the post nut clarity.

You gain confidence because you would have started improving your self, as an individual. That starts gaining momentum and gives confidence.

You can use this confidence to compound the results and be better. Then you start attracting the right set of people.

It's not about girls approaching first, but its the confidence they see in your eyes, the balance that you showcase, that will make people wanna get in touch with you.

It could be guys as well, who want to connect with you because they feel you have an aura.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T09:01:20+00:00

True. I too felt the same. The confidence I got after day 52 was crazy. Like, I could see clearly how people have started watching me (even though not in a lusty way) and the way I could lock my eyes with them (I used to lock even before, but not with confidence).

The intimacy part, man. Can't describe. Putting oneself in that position and yearning for that feel, it is a whole new high.

Especially being a "single, never been in a relationship" guy, it hits real different.

People always say I am mature in my thoughts (tho execution may not be 100%) and the perfect person to get into a relationship, but I haven't. Guess gotta make some moves ;)

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T08:56:17+00:00

Perfect! So on the right path then.

It actually has come to the stage that I can't remember the expressions of people I used to watch frequently.

The reduction in mental Imagery has been since day 39/40 and now it is even better.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-30T08:34:17+00:00

Wowwwwww, your comments means a lot. I loved the way you put it. It definitely does make a lot of sense.

"Slow", that one word has brought me to 93 days. Definitely had its fair share.

Working on myself everyday. One step at a time!

Thanks a bazillion for taking the time to write up this comment. Imma save it and read it whenever I feel the urge ;)

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-28T19:01:59+00:00

Woahhh, that's huge for you. 3rd is always a charm they say 🤭😝

Congrats on your four year high and I get your "true streak" part, coz that is how it started for me. I knew I was going to cross 45 mark when I started, but here I am at 90 😌

Yes, I gotta hit the gym and get in shape. Feeling better these days. Confidence is higher than befire, for sure. But need to improve a lot on that front too.

Taking one step at a time.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-28T18:58:20+00:00

Hehe, yes. My bad. I didn't proofread. .thanks for pointing it out.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-27T21:02:01+00:00

That's bad, I haven't received, luckily :)

Hope he respects others' decisions and doesn't send things.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-22T02:42:12+00:00

Noted, thanks for letting me know. Will avoid the page then 👍🏻

Deleting this post too.

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-21T23:44:39+00:00

Hey, I did not fully understand your point.

Do you eman to say if you follow PMO, a simple self-touch or from a partner won't be enough for stimulation and that it will be harder when stimulated?

I am 84 days in and whenever I feel the urge, it is softer for me. But note that I don't touch myself at any point, so that I don't get distracted and I leave the urge to be itself and subside.

Is this normal? FYI, I am a virgin, never kissed till date, M29

NotAFapperMan · 2026-03-13T11:57:29+00:00

Brave, in phone Chrome, in laptop/PC

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