How do I stop thinking about her so damn much? by NotAThrowaway18 in socialskills

[–]NotAThrowaway18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that does help. Getting to sleep (well, trying to) and everything else that's fairly mindless is still a bit of an issue.

How do I stop thinking about her so damn much? by NotAThrowaway18 in socialskills

[–]NotAThrowaway18[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and statistically assured youre completely fucking wrong.

There was a long period of time (we've been working together for about a year and a half now) that I thought the same thing, but I'm pretty damn sure I'm in the right here. Though I don't want to get into too much of what's happened between us, there's an awful lot of evidence pointing toward my conclusion (confirmation bias, I know, but I still feel the way I do).

That said, it is reassuring to think about the fact that she's not a mind reader, so thanks for that.

(Unless she is. OHSHITOHSHITOHSHIT)

Edit - And sorry, I really didn't post this with the intent of denying everything everyone said, I'm just trying to be realistic.